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31 Mar 2020, 3:29 pm

After all this quarantine I will probably "give up" sex too :lol:


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01 Apr 2020, 8:27 am

My 1st marriage was young and dumb and was taken advantage of and when she got tired went on her way.The 2nd woman has a lot more compassion and is a big help.



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02 Apr 2020, 7:46 pm

Jamesy wrote:
i know one 73 year old man who i suspect might be autistic. hes in a friendship which is kinda a relationship with this lady who is 58 who also has high functioning autism herself.

however she does not want sex with him at all. is that normal because of the age gap? i think the older women get the less they seem to want sex.
I cant really speak for the age thing but some autistics dislike or aren't into sex for various reasons.


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03 Apr 2020, 7:46 pm

I could care less whether or not I get to have sex. There are lots of things that would be nice to have, that are also not necessary.


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04 Apr 2020, 12:07 pm

CockneyRebel wrote:
I could care less whether or not I get to have sex. There are lots of things that would be nice to have, that are also not necessary.




Yeah I agree if I I had a girlfriend I would love cuddling and other types of physical intimacies.

But sex on the other hand has just never appealed to me



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24 Apr 2020, 8:55 am

'Some' women will always not want to sleep with you. Maybe you're looking at the wrong women.


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24 Apr 2020, 7:10 pm

Whale_Tuune wrote:
'Some' women will always not want to sleep with you. Maybe you're looking at the wrong women.




I used to know one autistic girl who said to me “I must have slept with loads of men in my life” and she then said to me “but not you though” :(



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24 Apr 2020, 7:41 pm

I don't think I could devote a lot of time to it after the first 6 months of a relationship. After the honeymoon period I'd prefer it to feel friendly and familiar rather than "hot".

It's something of a relief to be over the hill :lol:



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24 Apr 2020, 8:37 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Whale_Tuune wrote:
'Some' women will always not want to sleep with you. Maybe you're looking at the wrong women.




I used to know one autistic girl who said to me “I must have slept with loads of men in my life” and she then said to me “but not you though” :(


Maybe she was coming on to you. Like she meant, "why aren't you in my list of men??" :lol:


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