03 Jun 2020, 12:54 pm
03 Jun 2020, 4:38 pm
You're officially uncensored under the constitution, which doesn't in itself make it cool or necessarily OK to come up with "spiritual" rationales for other people's struggles or medical preconditions.
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03 Jun 2020, 4:42 pm
SecretOpossumCabal wrote:
cberg wrote:
Is it too much to ask not to be proselytized?
Quoting verses isn't the same as proselytizing. There are plenty of proverbs in the bible that can be applied generally, and here is an instance where philosophy is required to prevent aspie males from falling into the trap of nihilism. You can only do that through philosophy since they already perceive the naked reality of this world and philosophy is how they can add meaning to that reality.
Pointing out the paradox that it's only low people that can perceive the truth of this world is one way that aspie males can find meaning, because only that perception can allow them to mend it. The others that work with this world and thrive in this world have no reason to change it. But it's not a good thing to be well adjusted to a sick world, as the old saying goes. Hence a disposable aspie male has a tremendous advantage here in that he is forced to see the truth, that humans are just animals and to become something more than just an animal is a tremendous opportunity. That is why i say that the focus should be on his goals and hobbies, and not women.
Basically what I'm saying is that I can run on a belief system without any terminology whatsoever, while respecting women enough to at least pay attention, without becoming nihilistic as a result of social failings on anyone's part.
I don't exactly believe in the veracity nor falsehood of the distinction between humans & other organisms anyway. I'm a colony of cells...
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-Georges Lemaitre
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-Gem Tos
03 Jun 2020, 5:01 pm
rick42 wrote:
Being as Aspie,combined being a ethic(non white) and being short(around 5'10),I accepted that it's over for me and never stand a chance in the first place.
Aren't there any women of your own race on this planet? Or are all of them they afraid of getting wet by your tears of self-pity?
martianprincess wrote:
I just think we shouldn’t go diving into black-and-white thinking.
Guess you can't stop him!
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03 Jun 2020, 6:12 pm
03 Jun 2020, 6:22 pm
quite an extreme wrote:
rick42 wrote:
Being as Aspie,combined being a ethic(non white) and being short(around 5'10),I accepted that it's over for me and never stand a chance in the first place.
Aren't there any women of your own race on this planet? Or are all of them they afraid of getting wet by your tears of self-pity?
martianprincess wrote:
I just think we shouldn’t go diving into black-and-white thinking.
Guess you can't stop him!
Well I consider my self to be a ethic male,specifically black,tho I'm a bit light skinned.Here's the thing however.Many black women prefer white men,while other black women black males with.Black women never seem to want the "nerdy" black dude like myself.Black women throughout my life have called me lame,weird,dumb,etc. It seems like no girl likes a black man who is educated,and isn't a stereotype. I don't have self pity.You seem to not know the difference between those who having self pity and those who who simply accept the truth for what it is.As aspie ethic dude,I have accepted a while ago that no girl have ever liked guys like me and never will.
03 Jun 2020, 7:03 pm
03 Jun 2020, 8:54 pm
04 Jun 2020, 2:09 am
rick42 wrote:
I don't have self pity.You seem to not know the difference between those who having self pity and those who who simply accept the truth for what it is.
The truth for what it is is that you have a very negative opinion about yourself and you chances with women and for this you are full of self-pity and negative expectations towards the girls. How should women like a guy who doesn't even thinks good about himself? Women have big eyes and are full of empathy and notice how you feel about yourself and towards them. For this they may feel bad about you just because of this. Guess you need to change the way that you are.
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04 Jun 2020, 2:41 am
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04 Jun 2020, 6:32 am
sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
It's not over!
Women don't have a problem with aspie men! Don't mean to stereotype but alot of women are drawn to , introverted, socially awkward types. Types that are into computer games, have special interests.
Women don't have a problem with aspie men! Don't mean to stereotype but alot of women are drawn to , introverted, socially awkward types. Types that are into computer games, have special interests.
Any advice on where to find them?
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04 Jun 2020, 10:39 am
sorrowfairiewhisper wrote:
It's not over!
Yes, it's over!!
Your baby doesn't love you any more
Golden days before they end
Whisper secrets to the wind
Your baby won't be near you any more
Tender nights before they fly
Send falling stars that seem to cry
Your baby doesn't want you any more
It's over
It breaks your heart in two, to know she's been untrue
But oh what will you do? then she said to you
There's someone new we're through we're through
It's over it's over it's over
All the rainbows in the sky start to even say goodbye
You won't be seeing rainbows any more
Setting suns before they fall, echo to you that's all that's all
But you'll see lonely sunset after all
It's over it's over it's over it's over
