funeralxempire
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30 Jun 2020, 5:26 pm
Fnord wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
What would happen if a guy tried to get into a busy nightclub on his own?
The cover just went up, payable directly to me. Got $100?
I'm being nice, I doubt too many people who spend all day on here can afford $100 to spend the night getting rejected.
30 Jun 2020, 6:29 pm
30 Jun 2020, 11:23 pm
Jamesy wrote:
My parents were saying last night that nightclubs do not want men in there clubs.
I asked my parents the reason why this is and they were not really sure themselves.
Can I have your opinions as to why a lot of nightclubs don’t want men in there establishment?
I asked my parents the reason why this is and they were not really sure themselves.
Can I have your opinions as to why a lot of nightclubs don’t want men in there establishment?
I've never gone to nightclubs, so I'm only guessing, based on what I have seen in the movies.
I'm not sure it is correct to say "nightclubs don’t want men in there establishment".
I think they want a certain *quality* of men, and women, to come to their nightclub.
Meaning they want attractive people.
Some sort of NT elitism BS thing, I believe.
If you are gorgeous,
Like me,
Give it a shot.
30 Jun 2020, 11:28 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
If you have female friends in your group, bring them along - they will let you in for sure.
A bunch of single guys with no female company wouldn’t be so welcomed.
A bunch of single guys with no female company wouldn’t be so welcomed.
I think this is spot on.
Nightclubs don't want a "Sausage Fest".
And if they see there are too many men,
I can understand why they would discriminate.
BTW,
Never enough ladies,
In my book.
30 Jun 2020, 11:30 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
What would happen if a guy tried to get into a busy nightclub on his own?
Just try it.
Yup.
funeralxempire wrote:
Fnord wrote:
funeralxempire wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
What would happen if a guy tried to get into a busy nightclub on his own?
The cover just went up, payable directly to me. Got $100?I'm being nice, I doubt too many people who spend all day on here can afford $100 to spend the night getting rejected.
01 Jul 2020, 4:07 am
01 Jul 2020, 4:11 am
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01 Jul 2020, 4:33 am
cyberdad wrote:
So basically nightclubs here depend financially on males.
Exactly like Tinder
.The only few times I went to a nightclub is when there was a date set there.
But I would never go alone to approach ladies there like an idiot.
01 Jul 2020, 5:26 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
So basically nightclubs here depend financially on males.
Exactly like Tinder
.The only few times I went to a nightclub is when there was a date set there.
But I would never go alone to approach ladies there like an idiot.
BenderRodriguez wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Nightclubs don't want a "Sausage Fest".
01 Jul 2020, 11:47 am
Maybe it would be interesting to know of what kind of nightclubs we are talking about.
There are some major differences.
cyberdad wrote:
So basically nightclubs here depend financially on males.
I don’t wanna know how many thousands of francs I would’ve saved if I let other men pay the alcohol I was drinking when going out.
01 Jul 2020, 1:10 pm
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01 Jul 2020, 6:01 pm
Karamazov wrote:
^ I suspect, given that the OP is a fellow Brit, the probabilities that the nightclubs in question are “meat markets” is quite high...
could be wrong though
could be wrong though
Off Topic
Whenever I’m on a thread in L&D, like this one, the banner ad at the bottom informs me that I can “meet Ukrainian ladies now!”. Never see it when I’m in other fora: GAD I get “online diagnosis” ones, PPR usually either gambling or tarot readings. Anyone else observing patterns in the ad placements?
Dont worry, I get ads to meet hot asian lady singles as well
A lot of females I have known go clubbing primarily to dance and drink, they usually go with groups of female friends. I've never heard of any of them going home with a guy from a club. Though one girl did get raped outside the club.
01 Jul 2020, 7:04 pm
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Maybe it would be interesting to know of what kind of nightclubs we are talking about.
There are some major differences.
There are some major differences.
Yes Karamazov is correct, Britain has a lot of traditional drinking establishments that culturally the centre of the local town area. There may be a cover charge if there's a band or stand up comedy but it's usually optional. Rather than meat markets they are just where locals meet up for a pint and a yarn.
In Australia public bars aren't really that sophisticated. I have never been in an Australian bar where i felt welcome, You just go in and drink and "rack off:". Nightclubs have techno music and light shows, from what I know it hasn't changed since the mid 1990s when I stopped going. There isn't much memorable about these places other than your bank balance gets depleted without realising.
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
I don’t wanna know how many thousands of francs I would’ve saved if I let other men pay the alcohol I was drinking when going out.
Nothing in life is free. When a man pays for your drink he is buying your time.
01 Jul 2020, 7:17 pm
cyberdad wrote:
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
Maybe it would be interesting to know of what kind of nightclubs we are talking about.
There are some major differences.
There are some major differences.
Yes Karamazov is correct, Britain has a lot of traditional drinking establishments that culturally the centre of the local town area. There may be a cover charge if there's a band or stand up comedy but it's usually optional. Rather than meat markets they are just where locals meet up for a pint and a yarn.
In Australia public bars aren't really that sophisticated. I have never been in an Australian bar where i felt welcome, You just go in and drink and "rack off:". Nightclubs have techno music and light shows, from what I know it hasn't changed since the mid 1990s when I stopped going. There isn't much memorable about these places other than your bank balance gets depleted without realising.
LunaticCentruroides wrote:
I don’t wanna know how many thousands of francs I would’ve saved if I let other men pay the alcohol I was drinking when going out.
Nothing in life is free. When a man pays for your drink he is buying your time.
Yep, that explains a lot
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01 Jul 2020, 7:46 pm
speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there. 
i think that if i had walked into there and found not a single man [all women] that i'd be somewhat disturbed by that. 
01 Jul 2020, 7:50 pm
auntblabby wrote:
speaking of "sausage fest," i walked into an overcrowded alcohol-serving establishment asking for directions one day when i was lost somewhere out in the country. after i exited, it dawned on my like falling rain, that there was not a single woman in there. i think that if i had walked into there and found not a single man [all women] that i'd be somewhat disturbed by that.
i think that if i had walked into there and found not a single man [all women] that i'd be somewhat disturbed by that. Sounds like an Australian bar
