Teach51
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18 Jul 2020, 8:00 am
Pepe wrote:
Lilinoe wrote:
And everyone would be happier if we weren't obsessed with appearances and were instead at least a little interested about not being douchebags in love life...
Blame the evolutionary process. <shrug>
Is this the evolutionary process where boobs are more important to a man than qualities such as diligence, wisdom, integrity?......No wonder the world is in such a mess
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18 Jul 2020, 8:35 am
Teach51 wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Lilinoe wrote:
And everyone would be happier if we weren't obsessed with appearances and were instead at least a little interested about not being douchebags in love life...
Blame the evolutionary process. <shrug>
Is this the evolutionary provess where boobs are more important to a man than qualities such as diligence, wisdom, integrity?......No wonder the world is in such a mess
For some men, yes.
But I am not "Some Men".
18 Jul 2020, 9:46 am
Teach51 wrote:
Is this the evolutionary process where boobs are more important to a man than qualities such as diligence, wisdom, integrity?......No wonder the world is in such a mess
The human courtship process makes a lot more sense if you start from the understanding that we are, effectively, still cave people.
Meet Ögg:
"Me Ögg! Big strong, get much meat for feed big clan! Ögg need mate. Make carving to show:
Perfect mate to birth and feed all Öggs babbies!
18 Jul 2020, 10:44 am
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18 Jul 2020, 11:20 am
Wolfram87 wrote:
Teach51 wrote:
Is this the evolutionary process where boobs are more important to a man than qualities such as diligence, wisdom, integrity?......No wonder the world is in such a mess
The human courtship process makes a lot more sense if you start from the understanding that we are, effectively, still cave people.
Meet Ögg:
"Me Ögg! Big strong, get much meat for feed big clan! Ögg need mate. Make carving to show:
Perfect mate to birth and feed all Öggs babbies!
Lol I understand what's going on, I am partial to an alpha caveman myself on occasion, but it never contributes to a happy long-term co-existence that would benefit humanity. I was raised on Jimmy Stewart and Spencer Tracy and Katherine Hepburn mushy films. I want my money back! Real life is just a sordid cess pool and people need to learn social behaviour from animals, animals never take more than they need unlike humans who aim to divide, destroy and exploit. Deep sigh.
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18 Jul 2020, 12:11 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
Humans probably didn’t speak like stereotypical cavemen back in Cro-Magnon days.
The languages of “primitive” people, by and large, are more complex than those of post-industrial people.
The languages of “primitive” people, by and large, are more complex than those of post-industrial people.
People have a wrong idea of the people in stone age. Just think about the indians before Columbus. They were anything but primitive.
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18 Jul 2020, 12:40 pm
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18 Jul 2020, 1:20 pm
I'd like to introduce you to a distant relative of mine. His name is "Urg" le Pew.
He doesn't talk much, these days. 
Wolfram87 wrote:
Perfect mate to birth and feed all Öggs babbies!
I approached her myself,
For some, you know.
But I got a stony reception.
C'est la vie.
18 Jul 2020, 1:42 pm
Wolfram87 wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
That’s a “Venus.” About 25,000 BC or so.
It probably had more religious significance than courtship significance.
Cro-Magnons, it is said, had a dignified air about them.
It probably had more religious significance than courtship significance.
Cro-Magnons, it is said, had a dignified air about them.
Didn't say it had courtship significance. But in presumably being a carving representing fertility, it can be reasonably considered a clue to what would be a desirable traits in a woman of the time. And a plus-size woman with wide hips and large tracts of land would probably be highly desirable among hunter-gatherers.
The ability to acquire and maintain "Cuddliness" equated to surviving famine periods, through the ease of putting on weight when there was plenty, hence, the value of this characteristic in the caveman days.
BTW, This effigy is the earliest known example of a "Sex Doll".
smudge wrote:
^ I'm bored out of my skull too, though that probably doesn't have much to do with your signature quote.
"I'm bored out of my skull, let's play a different game. Let's pay a visit down below and cast the world in flame."
Whoa! I didn't realise the sexual innuendo until just now!
I am getting hot and bothered.
I will never see Wolfram in the same light again.
18 Jul 2020, 2:08 pm
Teach51 wrote:
This may not be a popular statement but I find that self-proclaimed "average" looking men who lament here that they can't get "hot" women is a glaringly, blatant, superficial double standard. Oh! Woe to us average run of the mill plain ladies! Who will take the trouble to uncover the beauty within the imperfect beast?
Oh! Woe to us average run of the mill plain ladies! Who will take the trouble to uncover the beauty within the imperfect beast?Goes both ways.
I’ve seen plenty fat, not so hot women on dating sites say they only date a handsome fit guy with his life together. Guess they figure they deserve a brand Pitt type guy just for being alive.
I get overlooked, so I don’t feel sorry for them when they complain about being alone.
I hope I wasn’t one you were thinking of when you posted. I’ve only once even tried asking out someone super pretty and thin, never again. First woman I every asked out. all the others were cubby and not what society deems pretty. I kinda prefer chubby women. I’ve since learned my place in life and don’t ask any women out anymore.
I don’t think most men will take the trouble to uncover the beauty within the imperfect beast anymore then most women will.
Western society is extremely superficial, most people don’t want to settle for less then what they believe they’re owed.
