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06 Jan 2021, 4:46 pm
That was my impression too.
That seems to be the inference, but was it genuine or her just pulling his chain?
Let's ask Rexi.
Oh...she already replied.
You have to pay me now. For now it's just hugs
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06 Jan 2021, 5:20 pm
At time I was 29 and this random young girl came up to me and asked "do you fancy that old man?"
Did you look towards her before? Women nearly always notice and may be she liked you and did wan't to give you a chance. Otherwise she wouldn't have cared you in any way. Right reply would have been "Not a bit but I fancy you. Thanks that you are finally come to replace him!" or something like that.
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06 Jan 2021, 6:04 pm
At time I was 29 and this random young girl came up to me and asked "do you fancy that old man?"
Did you look towards her before? Women nearly always notice and may be she liked you and did wan't to give you a chance. Otherwise she wouldn't have cared you in any way. Right reply would have been "Not a bit but I fancy you. Thanks that you are finally come to replace him!" or something like that.
So sassy! And reckless
I like it, but I feel for the old man
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06 Jan 2021, 7:20 pm
Given the levels of self importance, unnecessary drama and bitchiness involved in implying you are gay just for NOT paying her attention, I would have been quite happy saying "Well I'm straight as it happens, but he's still foxier than you are" and then watching the inevitable flounce.
Can't be doing with this sort of BS.
I highly doubt she was jealous. At best she thought she was being funny.
Well then a funnier reply is still a winner. Can't take it? Don't dish it out.
Alas the OP missed the opportunity
Right that. Most aspies are to unaware of the girls to even assume being liked by them and even less for reacting to something like that in a right way.
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Reminds me a class meeting 4 years ago pub. After the meeting in a pub I was still chatting with an old classmate on the street. The huge amount of beer before became a problem after some time. There was a little dancing bar near to us and so we went in for peeing. Still nicely dressed from the class meeting before I went in just for fun like owning and ruling the club. Looking after the women right and left a bit arrogant whether one of them shows interest but it didn't seemed that way. After peeing I went to the exit and did wait for my friend. Suddenly a cute young girl from behind brushed as hard against be that she lost her balance and did fell in front of me to my feets. No other woman ever did something like that as wild to me. I hadn't even noticed her on the other side of the room before and I guess she was up to change that before I left. She did look into my eyes playfully and did challenging grin at me from the ground. Awesome pretty and cute girl. She was about 18 only and I was about 30 years older then her and didn't even get her at all ... 
Why don't women ever say just 'Hi!' if they are interested in a guy? Why do they always brush their body against him instead or act a strange way? Can somebody teach the girls to talk to a guy that they like instead? Why do they want him to feel their tits before even having a look in his eyes? I don't really understand that mind set ... Right - I know that us guys are just toys for you girls but really ...
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She did this because you weren't falling at her feet. You were occupied with "him". She expected you to take notice of her straight away because she probably felt attractive or gets many compliments. She got angry and got rude with you.
Sorry that happened to you. Once a guy asked me to dance at a club. I turned him down because my feet were blistered by bad shoes. He insulted me. He called me a fat tramp. I was stunned at first but then laughed my head off.
It just struck me funny ... a fat tramp. I felt "relevant".
... ... ...
Your personal anecdote caused me to burst into laughter--not because of the fact you were insulted but because you felt "relevant"...I am glad you took it as a compliment even though it was meant to be an insult...You have the right attitude
...Insults as such should not be taken seriously...
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09 Jan 2021, 3:22 pm
Given the levels of self importance, unnecessary drama and bitchiness involved in implying you are gay just for NOT paying her attention, I would have been quite happy saying "Well I'm straight as it happens, but he's still foxier than you are" and then watching the inevitable flounce.
Can't be doing with this sort of BS.
I highly doubt she was jealous. At best she thought she was being funny.
Well then a funnier reply is still a winner. Can't take it? Don't dish it out.
*Covers mouth* My. That's check mate on every level I can think of. Gaymes over.
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09 Jan 2021, 3:35 pm
Why don't women ever say just 'Hi!' if they are interested in a guy? Why do they always brush their body against him instead or act a strange way? Can somebody teach the girls to talk to a guy that they like instead? Why do they want him to feel their tits before even having a look in his eyes? I don't really understand that mind set ...
Right - I know that us guys are just toys for you girls but really ...I personally want to see the inside of your mind. How you react, how well you can naturally read and fulfill me, tells me who you are. But I communicate too to find out a lot more. I don't know why, because it only works with people who have a high level of cognitive empathy or other females. Maybe when you were out every day hunting with the fellow men we forgot you exist and we had to adapt to women. Maybe nature only needs predators to pick up on female cues for mating, and maybe any guy responds sexually to us doing that instead of talking to you like your fellow guys.
Hey, it's a start.
But the less you notice, the more we are pushed to act in Extreme manners to get your attention. And by doing so we already have studied who you are and hanged around you liking you the more something new about you is noticed so we are likely to already be ready for sex when you notice us.
And that's probably one reason why people stay in unhealthy relationships with emotionally unavailable people.
You are much more than a toy to us, that's why it's hard for you to really catch up with our imagination, we have tons of expectations and fantasies. And we can be very criticizing and mothering [in a bad way], one of the main reason for male relationship unhappiness.
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09 Jan 2021, 4:09 pm
I used to think my whole country was. But now I see it's much more widespread. So you can always risk posting pics with old guys, no worries. Smart people will just think it's your dad before they try to ask for your hand [forgive me, fishy fin] in marriage.
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10 Jan 2021, 11:06 am
Hey, it's a start.
Thanks for explaining even that I had to read that more than once for getting what you meant with it. In the end they did count on a mindset that doesn't matches my brain even a little. Has nothing to do with predators but with the expection of feelings and emotions it causes. It's an emotional calculation regarding a mind working that women expect. But thanks because your explanation does help to get that right. Also why as much of women do and why the one who had a little crush even got pissed off if I didn't react. Of course it's a very calculating behaviour but I think I get it right now despite that it ever caused me feelings except in one single case where I had feelings for a girl before and awesome longing for her to like me to. Seems to work with me only if a girl is able to cause me a crush on her and has feelings for me herself as well. Takes more to cause me feelings then just to rub against me a bit...
Had that girl looked at me that way before and brushed against me afterwards then she had succeeded with it because I would have been aware of her in a very different way.
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