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21 Dec 2021, 4:40 pm

Is this the same toothless woman who wanted to molest you?


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21 Dec 2021, 4:43 pm

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Is this the same toothless woman who wanted to molest you?




No this woman was a 47 year old divorcee who has had all her 4 children taking away from her.



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21 Dec 2021, 4:47 pm

Why are the words of a 47 year old divorcee who has had her children taking away from her important to you?



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21 Dec 2021, 4:48 pm

She sounds like a fine upstanding citizen.


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21 Dec 2021, 4:49 pm

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Why are the words of a 47 year old divorcee who has had her children taking away from her important to you?




Well it’s not great being made fun of for being a virgin.

Most likely I will wind up being the ‘40 year old virgin’.



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21 Dec 2021, 4:55 pm

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Why are the words of a 47 year old divorcee who has had her children taking away from her important to you?
Well it’s not great being made fun of for being a virgin.  Most likely I will wind up being the ‘40 year old virgin’.
If you are THAT sensitive, then it is no mystery why you are still a virgin.



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21 Dec 2021, 4:57 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Why are the words of a 47 year old divorcee who has had her children taking away from her important to you?
Well it’s not great being made fun of for being a virgin.  Most likely I will wind up being the ‘40 year old virgin’.
If you are THAT sensitive, then it is no mystery why you are still a virgin.



Listen I don’t really give the fact I am still a virgin much thought. I don’t really have a great desire to have sex either.



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21 Dec 2021, 5:01 pm

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... I don’t really give the fact I am still a virgin much thought. I don’t really have a great desire to have sex either.
The fact these are the subjects of virtually every post you submit and every thread you start belies your claims.



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21 Dec 2021, 5:09 pm

Fnord wrote:
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... I don’t really give the fact I am still a virgin much thought. I don’t really have a great desire to have sex either.
The fact these are the subjects of virtually every post you submit and every thread you start belies your claims.



Well I have decided to cut back on doing the repetitive threads.



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21 Dec 2021, 5:11 pm

Jamesy wrote:
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... I don’t really give the fact I am still a virgin much thought. I don’t really have a great desire to have sex either.
The fact these are the subjects of virtually every post you submit and every thread you start belies your claims.
Well I have decided to cut back on doing the repetitive threads.
Yet, here you are, submitting posts in this thread about being a 40-year old virgin.



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21 Dec 2021, 5:17 pm

Fnord wrote:
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Fnord wrote:
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... I don’t really give the fact I am still a virgin much thought. I don’t really have a great desire to have sex either.
The fact these are the subjects of virtually every post you submit and every thread you start belies your claims.
Well I have decided to cut back on doing the repetitive threads.
Yet, here you are, submitting posts in this thread about being a 40-year old virgin.



Oh yeah s**t your right.



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21 Dec 2021, 5:42 pm

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I got made fun of recently by an older woman for still being a virgin at 32.
They only know for sure if you tell them. It's no1 esles f#cking buisness if your a virgin or not so do NOT vulenteer that info. You could petend your not a virgin if anyone asks. There was an ep of the Fresh Prince OF Bellair where Carloton was upset about being a virgin around the end of the ep & was talking about the peer pressure & Will made a coment like "That's why us guys lie about it"


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21 Dec 2021, 5:48 pm

Nothing wrong being a virgin. The truth is nobody cares what you do in your private life once you leave school. A lot of this stigma and shame is self-driven.



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21 Dec 2021, 5:50 pm

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If you think about being "forever alone," and don't think about anything else, you will probably be "forever alone."

If I stayed the same way I was in my early 20s, I probably wouldn't have a mate right now.

I was stuck in a rut; the only way I got out of it was by radically changing my thinking pattern. I started not caring if I ever get a girlfriend again. I emphasized, in my mind, my interest in meteorology, archaeology, etc., I derived pleasure from studying these. And I derived pleasure from reading classic novels. I put "getting a girlfriend" on the back burner.

If one continues to speculate as to "why I can't get a girlfriend," and read statistics on it, and talk about the ratio of men to women in their town or whatever, that one will remain stuck in a rut.


^^^ this. I wish I had this type of advice when I was in my 20s. Overcoming social pressures is much easier in hindsight and I could have used my valuable time at this age more productively then ruminating about girls.



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21 Dec 2021, 6:00 pm

I have a lot of interests I derived pleasure from, but i still enjoy ruminating about girls.


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21 Dec 2021, 6:29 pm

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Nothing wrong being a virgin. The truth is nobody cares what you do in your private life once you leave school. A lot of this stigma and shame is self-driven.
It depends on where you live. Some traditional hardcore conservative areas have a problem with others having premarital sex or homosexual relationships. Ironcally people in those areas can assume that a virgin guy is a closseted homosexual & he can get flack for being gay even thou he is not; I know this one 1st hand.


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