I have always felt odd about my body, kind of like it was an alien thing and not under my control. As I got to my 50's I thought more and more about a tattoo, not as something for others but as something for myself. Something that I could imprint on this body that personalised it to me.
Illogical I know.
Initially I had a small design done on my upper arm. I liked it so much that I then had this extended to go down to my forearm and over my shoulder. Fortunately I have a high pain threshold so it wasnt a problem from that perspective. I actually quite enjoyed it.
Once done, I felt complete and I have never felt compelled to have another.
I like to see them on others including females. For the same reason I guess, its as thought they have claimed and made something their own that they were randomly issued with.
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Diagnosed: ASD, hEDS, MCAS, ARFID
Retired specialist neurodevelopmental clinician
Member of Autistic & LGBTQ+ communities in South West UK
Trustee at Cornwall Pride charity & Coordinator at Kernow Neurodivergent Artists network