Who helps you make decisions?

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My girlfriend tends to make a lot of the decisions. I tend to be kinda passive in general or I just go my own way with things. I have OCD & can be a good stratigist sometimes but I need to know the various details & analyze things. Cass tends to be moody & can get upset very easily sometimes. I give my imput but it sometimes is immediently rejected & she gets upset by me suggesting anything. She sometimes says she needs me to help her decide but she sometimes rejects everything before I'm done explaining. I often remind myself of the phrase "Pick your battles" & I try giving my imout & then let her decide herself unless I feel very strongly about it. I usually only feel strongly if it is something related to our health. I'm used to others not hearing me out because they assume I'm too ret*d to possibly understand & I notice things woulda went better for them if they would have heard me out. Cass doesn't do that because she thinks I'm stupid or anything. She freaks out about things sometimes & would not listen to anyone when she's like that. There's been a bit of times when she's said that she should have listened to me when she didn't or she thanks me later for pushing an issue that she gave in to.

I ask Noire.

My boyfriend, and also, he helps me to follow through with things. I have been trying to find work but I can get nervous/anxious about putting in applications and such, but he encourages me and can put a bit of pressure on me to do those things(as sometimes I may put it off because of anxiety and such). So he helps to encourage me to follow through which is helpful.