Top Five Personality Traits For Partners (POLL)
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Weight Of Memory wrote:
nick007 wrote:
I'll add a few honorable mentions that weren't listed in this poll. The 5 I voted for were the only 1s listed I really liked
Very affectionate with romantic partners
Needy & clingy with romantic partners
Ditzy
Sensitive
Is a major outsider or relates to one of these cultural groups~ Dork, EMO, Goth, Punk, Hippy, or Anarchist

Very affectionate with romantic partners
Needy & clingy with romantic partners
Ditzy
Sensitive
Is a major outsider or relates to one of these cultural groups~ Dork, EMO, Goth, Punk, Hippy, or Anarchist
I'm confused by these.
Why do you actively want someone who is ditzy or needy/clingy?
There's very little overlap between dorks/nerds/geeks and hippies, or between either of those and goth/punk/emo/anarchist. Are you just looking for any outsider culture to belong to?
I actually have characteristics of all those groups & different people have compared me to all of them at some point. At the risk of sounding like a giant narcissist, I tend to have an easier time relating & understanding people who are more like me.
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delvian wrote:
Agreeableness was something I hadn't really thought about, or what it even meant in practice, until I saw a recent YouTube video that talked about it. I'll link it below, rather than embedding it in the post. She talks about what agreeableness is between the 1 minute and 3 minute mark roughly, and essentially describes it as the opposite of antagonism. Anyway, I liked her explanation and I think agreeableness is something that's important to me, personally.
https://youtu.be/QU10mQLgawA
The vid was interesting, Thanx for posting that. I had kinda thought that agreeable meant going along with others. One reason I didn't pick agreeableness is because I need others to be direct & tell me if I'm crossing boundaries, if they have a problem with my behavior, & voice concern if they have concerns or objections to an idea of plan I have instead of just going along & then resenting me for it. I guess I was thinking about extreme agreeableness. As for as myself, some would think that I'm too agreeable & others would think that I'm antagonistic, & others would think I'm somewhere between.
https://youtu.be/QU10mQLgawA
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nick007 wrote:
The vid was interesting, Thanx for posting that. I had kinda thought that agreeable meant going along with others. One reason I didn't pick agreeableness is because I need others to be direct & tell me if I'm crossing boundaries, if they have a problem with my behavior, & voice concern if they have concerns or objections to an idea of plan I have instead of just going along & then resenting me for it. I guess I was thinking about extreme agreeableness. As for as myself, some would think that I'm too agreeable & others would think that I'm antagonistic, & others would think I'm somewhere between.
Glad you found the video interesting.
Yeah, I know what you mean, that's pretty much why I wouldn't have chosen "Agreeable" in the past. It's also why I felt it important to choose "Self-confident" too.
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