Troubles with love

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Wait, who are you talking too? I already said I wanted love, real love, not some one night stand. But urges will come up eventually in a relationship, but since I just want to have a real relationship, i could easily wait, as long as i have someone to be with.

I was talking to Sabatai-Baduur, who keeps confusing "having sex" with "f*****g."

He seems to fail to realize that:

-Having sex has very little to do with penises and vaginas. 90% of sex occurs within the mind and spirit.

-People having sex just for fun or or kids is not having sex. That's called f*****g and, like the word implies, it is very animalistic and filthy.

-Monkeys f**k. Pigs f**k. Human beings should not f**k because they have the option to have sex instead once they've both reached a certain level of spiritual and mental self-consciousness. In my experience only 4 or 5% of people under the age of 18 have even begun to approach that level.

-The act of lovemaking has been attached to having sex because society has always viewed it as a taboo thing to be reserved only for those deeply in love. If instead society had always said that only married couples are allowed to rub their ears together, then people would "have sex" by rubbing their ears together because it is the most highly-revered and reserved physical action known to human beings in this scenario. I really hope at least someone understands what I mean by all of that since it's kind of a crappy example.

Anyways, I'm off to bed. Goodnights, WP.

Well , at least you got 2-3 dates in your life and you're still 20.

Advice : Do not tell them about autism.

This doesn't mean to be dishonest but just don't mention it .

I would never have bad intentions toward a girl.

Matter of fact, my 2nd girlfriend, one who wasn't afraid of my aspergers, knew I was willing to wait, even wanting to wait..

You can't just do it and not be in love, I don't even know how that can be possible (i know it is though sadly). Either way, when your done you'd feel guilty, that's for sure. That's why you need to be in love (and many more reasons).

I'm not good at talking about this stuff, that's why I need some aid in what to do when I find/if I find another girlfriend. I'll do as suggested, and break it gently to whomever I go out with.

Oddly though, I don't think I even mentioned sex once (I might be mistaken, I might have forgotten, but it wasn't what I meant, that's for sure). When I said "needs", I meant "love". I need love, because I'm lonely right now, as it is, with no one to be with.

Lol, ok..

Yea, I'm not THAT needy. (not even close)..

I just want a nice relationship with a nice girl, that's all. Someone said they'd "hook me up", but I think they mean someone from a bar. I'm going to turn down that offer, I don't want anything to do with a girl that goes to bars all the time..

Yes, you are doing something wrong. Love isn't, and can't be, planned. Its something that just happens when you have a connection with someone, and once it happens you can't deny it.

well, it hasn't just "happened" to me yet..

and it's not like i have the courage to ask a girl out or something like that.. im very shy, and was lucky to ever have 2 in my past... (of which 1 im still friends with)