Feel like a "nobody" because I'm still single

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Neither do I but it's a learned skill

Meaning that you can learn emotional maturity

The first step is for me to be around more babies and actually get hands-on with them

Yes, also getting in a relationship with the wrong person just because you're feeling pressure can end disastrously. I remember being on the bus one time with a woman that a few weeks later was shot to death by her stalker ex. And, then there's folks that get trapped in an abusive marriage for the rest of their lives and wind up being miserably for decades.

Really, it's unfortunate in some ways that people have a biological clock in terms of having kids as it can put pressure on people to do stupid stuff to get to have kids and potentially miss red flags that they would otherwise notice.