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06 Sep 2007, 12:17 pm

calandale wrote:

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Why would you want to marry a normal girl?

QFT

And as to statements about ANY girl,
my wife proposed to me.

What does QFT stand for?

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06 Sep 2007, 12:19 pm

In my experiences women like me because i'm not your average guy. I'm not boring. I can be passionate, I love cats, i'm not trying to impress other people and I love cars. I don't try, its just once in awhile I meet a woman that likes my sense of humor and all of those characteristics.

I'm not the most handsome guy in the world. I'm decent looking, but women seem to like guys that are unique. Keep trying, don't let the crazy nt women get you down.

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06 Sep 2007, 3:31 pm

QFT= Quoted For Truth

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06 Sep 2007, 3:58 pm

Aspie men have some darn good qualities. They're honest, loyal, intelligent, focused...lots of things that NT women claim they want in a man. The only real difficulties I see an AS man presenting are the lack of emotional reciprocity, the lack of physical affection (in NT-desired amounts, that is) and some communication difficulties. There's the social thing, if the NT woman is very socially active and expects the same of her husband. Yeah, those can be the deal-breakers, sure, but if a NT woman can see past those, so what? What's not to love?

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07 Sep 2007, 5:55 pm

juliekitty wrote:

Why would you want to marry a normal girl?

I love JulieKitty’s picture. It makes me want to run home and kiss my kitty!

I agree. Normal is so boring. I am NT, but far from normal. It’s hard being remotely intelligent and watching the rest of the world putter along in chaos and petty nonsense. I live and let live, not moody, just a nice homebody. Not that I’m not sociable, I just don’t like loud bars and restaurants, and can only take my friends for so long until they sound like the teacher in the Peanuts cartoons.

Strive for beyond normal. Compassionate and nurturing women do exist. We’re just not the norm.

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07 Sep 2007, 6:15 pm

GoatOnFire wrote:

A normal girl would want to marry an aspie man... if he were rich and easy to manipulate. She could blow his money and he probably wouldn't even blow up if he knew she was blatantly cheating on him.

Other than that I can't think of another reason.

I know what this aspie would do, and it's not the passive approach I assure you.

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07 Sep 2007, 7:59 pm

pity f**k prolly. otherwise they like acorns

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07 Sep 2007, 8:43 pm

aaronrey wrote:

i dont know if it's just my society but most girls i know only want to marry rich, sociable guys that can take them to parties and have CEO-like career and can buy them expensive stuff.

but i hate pretending to be normal and i certainly dont want to spend my whole marriage life pretending to be normal.

Don't feel bad, bro. 60% of marriages fail...and I'm talking about NT-NT marriages.

Divorce, divorce, divorce...I see it all over the place. If people are too stupid to get married and properly raise children, then they shouldn't even marry in the first place.

When stupid people living together under one roof is madness enough. Being a stupid couple and having kids just adds gasoline to the fire.

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08 Sep 2007, 2:11 pm

LKL wrote:

juliekitty wrote:

I wouldn't marry a guy who didn't at least have aspie traits.

But then, I'm not normal, so I don't fit the parameters of the question.

Ditto.
Honesty is profoundly attractive.

but there is also such thing as too much honesty - b4 people start flaming me for this, consider what will happen if the guy always tells the truth every single time she asks if she's fat, if her breasts/some other body part are too small/big/wrong shape/whatever, if x girl is hot, what he thinks of her family/friends, etc. what seems to be best is being honest (but tactful) only about the big things. the same goes for women. 'the truthful are loveless' (Kurt Vonnegut)
refrerring to the OP, the only other aspie i've ever met irl is happily married to a very nice nt woman. i don't know how the relationship started, so i can't really comment more.

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08 Sep 2007, 2:23 pm

pbcoll wrote:

LKL wrote:

juliekitty wrote:

I wouldn't marry a guy who didn't at least have aspie traits.

But then, I'm not normal, so I don't fit the parameters of the question.

Ditto.
Honesty is profoundly attractive.

well, I, for one, would NOT ASK THOSE QUESTIONS IF I DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR THOSE ANSWERS!

for real! how stupid could I be??

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08 Sep 2007, 2:27 pm

I still feel better suited with another Aspie.

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08 Sep 2007, 2:38 pm

nb411 wrote:

GoatOnFire wrote:

I know what this aspie would do, and it's not the passive approach I assure you.

Me either, but there are some aspies I'm sure that would. I've heard it used to be legal in Texas to shoot your wife and the guy she's cheating on you with if you caught them in the act red handed. Too bad it still isn't that way. :twisted:

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08 Sep 2007, 2:46 pm

Yep, there's nothing better than a good old honour killing.

Why not go all the way, and fully institute sharia law?

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08 Sep 2007, 2:53 pm

juliekitty wrote:

Yep, there's nothing better than a good old honour killing.

Why not go all the way, and fully institute sharia law?

Sharia would be a little excessive. But I think cheating should be illegal.

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08 Sep 2007, 3:04 pm

calandale wrote:

juliekitty wrote:

Why would you want to marry a normal girl?

QFT

And as to statements about ANY girl,
my wife proposed to me.

I agree with this statement.

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08 Sep 2007, 3:24 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

juliekitty wrote:

Yep, there's nothing better than a good old honour killing.

Why not go all the way, and fully institute sharia law?

Sharia would be a little excessive. But I think cheating should be illegal.

Tim

can you give us your reasons why, Tim?

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