Crossing my fingers, Praying to GOD like Crazy

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Totally.

Someone told me that there was alot of Aspies at the college. "Esspecially Girls"

So I asked "You guys have a club"

There wasn't any so I said

"Well there should be, Aspies are always looking for someone to relate to 24/7"


Anyway, I got an email from You Know Who, and see said.............

(QUOTE) I love to have lunch with you.

What's that tell you?

I think she really likes me. (again, using this for the blush effect)

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Thank You and have a nice day,

_Eric

Can I be you please?

Pretty much my steps for success is just that.

1. Set up a club

2. Meet the people so you can learn their personalities


And I guess it's just luck, when I meet Katheryn for the first time, I can see parts of myself in her. We have alot of things in commin so.....that's pretty much it, luck.

I guess people say the truth, it's just unexpected.

I will keep you guys updated if you'ld like.

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Thank You and have a nice day,

_Eric

Okay everyone,

Tonights the night!

I will call her and ask her if she would like to start to have a relationship with me.

This is my first time doing this and I'm not sure if the responce will me possitive or neggitive.

Wish me luck,

and on my next update I'll either be the happiest man alive or a depressed shadow.

_Eric

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Thank You and have a nice day,

_Eric

Well done.

Good work man.

You're a friendly just fun kind of a guy.

It's good to see people like you start relationships...

I just talked to her and I could get it out straight. So I guess she doesn't know yet. Although she's now on Wrong Planet so I'm not sure what to do now. I don't know her Member ID yet but I believe she knows mine.

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Thank You and have a nice day,

_Eric

Whoa there, cowboy...

I wouldn't jump right into "Do you want to be in a relationship?" That's a big step. Definitely try hanging out first, ask her out for coffee, bowling, something like that first. Not a movie, not enough chance for conversation there. Somewhere casual. The second or third time you hang out, smile and ask "So can we consider this a date?" If she says no, you can say you were just joking. Less awkwardness for the future then. If she says yes, great! You're now "casually dating". Leave it at that for awhile to feel out the chemistry, then if everything seems right you can ask her if you can call her your girlfriend.

I read somewhere that Aspies like to try to get into relationships right away but don't always understand the baby steps it takes to get there. Unfortunately that doesn't work well, including with other Aspies. So take it slow! Of course, if she tells you she wants to get married tomorrow and have your babies, well, my advice is null and void.

Good luck to you, my friend. Hope everything works out for the best.