Fussy about dating black girls; The remark..

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With a 22 year old there's just a big maturity gap, I still don't know that the age thing works quite as intensely in that regard unless it happens that you're her manager at a fast food place or something. I've known plenty of guys who are 30 dating 18 year olds and then again they were edgy guys, sport-bikers, and girls that age just loved guys like that a lot more than mid to late 20's.

Both of my two previous relationships were interracial.

Tim

I've found lots of black girls attractive, despite being paler than Death himself - I'm actually fairly colourblind in that regard, as external variations are really of little consequence to me.

I have found people of all nationalities very attractive.

Tim

Dont think genetics allways works like that AC, noses for example, if Mums got a thin nose, and dads got a fat nose, doesnt mean offspring are going to have medium noses, dominant genes you see, more likely you would have 1 kid with a thin nose, and 3 kids with fat noses.

Look at mixes race kids, a lot of them carry the most beautifull aspects of thier parents races and so turn out to be the prettiest people on Earth, but some carry the ugliest features of thier parents and turn out pretty unattractive.

From a health point of view though, you are correct, cross breed dogs are far healtier than pedigrees with all thier inbreeding.

Then it must be just as likely that someone who is born to a mix race couple could turn out black or white instead of mixed race, but more often then not they are in between and have generalised features. Having a child outside of your race is technically the polar extreme opposite of inbreeding, thus resulting on in a child that is more likely to be healthy.

True, which is why I started my post by saying "dont think genetics allways works like that".

Funny enough, white couples occassionally have a Black child and it turns out there was a Black person further back in the family tree so the parents where still carrying a Black skin Gene which suddenly resurfaced.

As for the child being more healthy, I did admit this in my "Dog" analogy.

Most racial groups are diverse enough
that inbreeding is NOT a problem.

Plus, there is no 'black' race. The phenotypical
determination tends to subdivide those of
recent African decent into quite a number
of races, all more distinct than any such
divisions in the caucasian phenotype. It's
intriguing how much diversity there really
is amongst Africans.

Mostly accurate information. However, sickle sell, ingrowing hair and various skin problems are some problem that would less likely to acure amongst mixed race. And it would also reduce problems from heart attacks that other races are likely to suffer.

sickle cell anemia is the only one
I've looked at, and I remember
that it had an evolutionary advantage.
Clearly, for those races most likely to
be afflicted, there's an advantage to
breeding with others, as it's recessive,
but I'm not at all convinced that mixing
is a tremendous advantage overall.

Certainly no disadvantage though - except
for the danger of losing genetic strains, into
a big melting pot. Generally, the larger one's
mating pool, the better off the species is.

Ohh man! That must have sucked. I hate communities like that.

I'd definitely date a black girl but like any other race - her personality would have to be pretty exotic and I'd need to feel really at home with her.

This happens in reverse, too. In my family, we are a mix of African American, Fillipino and Native American. Our skin tones range from medium brown to pale gold. I have a sister who was born with blond hair and blue eyes. She in turn grew up and had a son with blond hair and blue eyes. We call that a throwback, I think.

Yes, I'm not sure why someone would think so. Sexual preferences are stated to this effect by men and women all the time and they are not regarded as racist any more than a homosexual man is regarded as sexist against women.

Sexual preference is just that. We don't typically have much choice in the matter.

Myself, I do tend to be most attracted to those who share my own Black Irish origin (which amounts to pale white skin, dark brown hair, 'slanted' blue eyes, a straight forehead, and a small mouth), but I also seem to favour Spanish, French, Norwegian, Czech, Japanese, and Kenyan traits.

Five of which, it turns out, Black Irish individuals have a history of favouring, one of which they are actually closely related to (the Spanish), and another of which they are more closely related to than most Europeans (the Japanese).

Sorry -- I find it all quite interesting.

I tend to get attracted to weird cultural mixes, maybe because they can't be readily classified. I myself am a mixture of different things, and so maybe find that attractive. Also, being an Aspie, I can't be readily classified either.