Brian003
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Joined: 10 Sep 2007
Gender: Male
Posts: 402
Location: University of Michigan Ann Arbor
27 Sep 2007, 2:24 pm
NeantHumain wrote:
Brian003 wrote:
I don't think the seats in that picture should be empty 
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Back to the OP's Topic- I seriously think you should go for a girl who is OKAY looking, maybe even somewhat attractive, instead of a girl who looks like a model.
I much rather date a girl who is ugly but is smart and can financially support herself than a girl who is really hot but is also an airhead and expects her husband to pay for everything.
Its not about finding the perfect girl- Its about lowering your expectations so an average girl will be good enough for your high ego.
.Back to the OP's Topic- I seriously think you should go for a girl who is OKAY looking, maybe even somewhat attractive, instead of a girl who looks like a model.
I much rather date a girl who is ugly but is smart and can financially support herself than a girl who is really hot but is also an airhead and expects her husband to pay for everything.
Its not about finding the perfect girl- Its about lowering your expectations so an average girl will be good enough for your high ego.
I never said supermodel hot, but obviously physical attractiveness (among other variables) matters. I don't see why you're advocating I settle for a girl with traits I don't find attractive. I don't want to date just to be dating.
What I am seeing here is a case of projection: You have a "high ego" and are hopping mad that you've realized you must be "lowering your expectations so an average girl" is "good enough." Obviously consciously thinking you must look for girls who are less than what you would naturally consider attractive is going to be a depressing view (and lead to nothing but a series of failed relationships).
Well then, go join the group with Ticker and Hadron. I believe the disorder is called egocentricity? Is that an Aspie trait?
27 Sep 2007, 9:29 pm
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28 Sep 2007, 5:47 am
