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30 Sep 2007, 8:27 am

JC I think you’re in denial that you are picky too, and probably avoidant.

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30 Sep 2007, 2:12 pm

I think that plan is a recipe for disaster because the majority of women who are that vulnerable and needy, have serious issues that they need to resolve themselves before they could even consider being in any kind of stable relationship... I speak from experience here.

Also, being a 'Savior', simply acts as an enabler, enabling the female to carry on playing out the damsel in distress role in every future relationship.

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30 Sep 2007, 2:24 pm

I've had contact with women who have been abused online. They seem to have a huge problem with their sexuality, wich could easily be abused.

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30 Sep 2007, 2:48 pm

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Ok, so that OP made me a little angry. Try talking to women. Then you'll know that what you're saying is BS. Yeah, ok, so we get close to those who help us through the bad times. But who doesn't?

Every relationship I've had has been pot luck. I'm not picky. I just want someone to love me. Which is probably the case for most ppl. You're sick if you are willing to manipulate that. Love isn't a game, you sicko.

Want? Wanted woman.. past tense. You have someone who loves you.

Not picky? What am i then? Some mental tramp you picked up in a bus station? * Honestly.. what are you like? I'm just something you won in the raffle.

We werent pot luck, we were blind chance wearing a blindfold and earplugs in a darkened room. Fighting against the odds, all that classic rock ballad material.

As for the OP.. nothing amiss with genuine chivalry and altruism. I love the concept of saving the day, knight in shining armour stuff, always have. (Too many high fantasy novels and metal at a young age, i suspect.) but cynically manipulating it as a guide for dating really isn't on. It is neither chivalrous, nor gentlemanly.

*Actually, I am a mental tramp she met in a bus station. Hooray for women without standards!

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30 Sep 2007, 4:55 pm

jkrane, your theory is a fact .

You are 100% correct, best example : the aspie girls . That's why most aspie girls here are in relationships because aspie girls are usually calm , depressed , suffer from low self-esteem ...in other term 'vulnerable' and so desirable by a lot of guys who seek relations . In other hand ,all these negative common traits in aspies have an inverse affect on aspie males' romance life.

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30 Sep 2007, 5:21 pm

Pugly wrote:

Well inherent in this "plan" is trying to rescue and help someone.

If you both want to be crazy... or at least border-line, that's cool.

Rescue and help can go either
way. And it can be mutual. I think
that my wife and I promoted one
another's sanity.

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30 Sep 2007, 5:24 pm

Macbeth wrote:

*Actually, I am a mental tramp she met in a bus station. Hooray for women without standards!

Warren Buffet attributed his long marriage to
low expectations.

There's a lot of truth there.

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30 Sep 2007, 5:32 pm

Quote:

If you wanna be happy
For the rest of your life,
Never make a pretty woman your wife,
So from my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you.

A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall.
As soon as he marries her
Then she starts to do
The things that will break his heart.
But if you make an ugly woman your wife,
You'll be happy for the rest of your life,
An ugly woman cooks her meals on time,
She'll always give you peace of mind.

Don't let your friends say
You have no taste,
Go ahead and marry anyway,
Though her face is ugly,
Her eyes don't match,
Take it from me she's a better catch.

Say man.
Hey baby.
Saw your wife the other day.
Yeah?
Yeah, she's ugly.
Yeah, she's ugly but she sure can cook.
Yeah?. Okay.

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How would you describe it, like a push or shove?
Guess I could pretend that this is all I need
Wanting more than what I have might appear as greed.

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30 Sep 2007, 9:52 pm

Lonermutant wrote:

jkrane wrote:

I see vulnerable women as a level playing field for the sick game known as human love. I don't wish for them to be taken advantage of or abused.

This looks like a recipe for sexual abuse to me.

lol...come on man...read the post...

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30 Sep 2007, 10:02 pm

LadyMacbeth wrote:

I'm glad you say that!

I'm serious! It's not a game...at least it shouldn't be!

Yes, I've tried talking to women...that's how I developed this theory.

I think it is sick, and I'm glad you pointed that out.

But I don't make the rules here...neither do you...

It's been "game over" for me ever since I've been into girls at the age of 13. No one-up mushrooms for this sorry jkrane, no extra lives...so it's time to find a girl who's been bitten by a goomba and fallen in a pit...like I have...

It's just so sick!

That was a very good point you made, Lady Macbeth.

However, my experiences have tought me that you have to manipulate the feelings of others in order to land a date. That's how the GAME of love works.

Notice how I said GAME of love, and not just "love".

There is a distinct difference between "true love", and the "GAME of love".
True love is a dying phenomenon in our generation.
And that, is what is truely sick.

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01 Oct 2007, 12:29 am

jkrane wrote:

Lonermutant wrote:

jkrane wrote:

I see vulnerable women as a level playing field for the sick game known as human love. I don't wish for them to be taken advantage of or abused.

This looks like a recipe for sexual abuse to me.

lol...come on man...read the post...

When reading it I thought of the kind of women who pays for drugs with sex. It's really no difference here. Here it's a case of women paying with sex for somewhere to belong.

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01 Oct 2007, 12:32 am

I don't even see where sex came
into the OP. Looks like someone
lonely and in need of help, willing
to offer the same to someone else.

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01 Oct 2007, 12:49 am

calandale wrote:

I don't even see where sex came
into the OP. Looks like someone
lonely and in need of help, willing
to offer the same to someone else.

I've seen many girls who have been abused who have ended up in abusive relationships just for a kind of protection.

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01 Oct 2007, 1:07 am

Lonermutant wrote:

I've seen many girls who have been abused who have ended up in abusive relationships just for a kind of protection.

Sure, but does that mean that
they should be precluded from
ANY relationship? Or, do you think
that someone who seeks out those
with damage are assured to harm
further?

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01 Oct 2007, 1:35 am

calandale wrote:

Lonermutant wrote:

I've seen many girls who have been abused who have ended up in abusive relationships just for a kind of protection.

Sure, but does that mean that
they should be precluded from
ANY relationship? Or, do you think
that someone who seeks out those
with damage are assured to harm
further?

What I'm talking about are girls with a screwed-up idea of sexuality.

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01 Oct 2007, 1:58 am

Lonermutant wrote:

calandale wrote:

Lonermutant wrote:

I've seen many girls who have been abused who have ended up in abusive relationships just for a kind of protection.

Sure, but does that mean that
they should be precluded from
ANY relationship? Or, do you think
that someone who seeks out those
with damage are assured to harm
further?

What I'm talking about are girls with a screwed-up idea of sexuality.

LOL

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