It kind of sounds like he's giving mixed messages. I guess just let him make a move, since he's the one who blew you off. If we was interested in you, he probably would have done SOMETHING, or at least he'd offer that he wants to do something with you.
Wish I could tell you what to do emotionally to get rid of thinking about it. I can't completely disconnect myself from my ex-fiancee emotionally
shadexiii wrote:
AnonymousAnonymous wrote:
One day, the correct person will come to you.
Don't go to them. Let them come to you.
To be honest, I used to view this as complete nonsense. "Wait, I should just sit here until someone great comes along?"
That's my only strategy

No, I don't actually expect it to work, but it's all I've got.
lonelyLady wrote:
I can totally understand you. this thing happened to me to, except it wasn't as bad because we don't work together. He was my friend, and he would say or do things that made me thing he liked me, but then days later he would act like he doesn't give a damn about me. I hate how men play with your heart. I wish men would stop doing it. Sorry, I don't have any good advice. I need a good advice myself... Perhaps accepting your feelings is the best option.
That's interesting to hear that, because I've always thought it would be the other way around-women would do that more than men. Maybe it's just my perspective because I'm a guy and don't have a clue what I'm doing when it comes to this stuff.