08 Oct 2007, 11:41 am
shadexiii wrote:
GoatMan wrote:
What I don't understand is how anyone can allow themselves to be seen in such a vulnerable state without the trust which develops in a loving, romantic relationship?
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08 Oct 2007, 3:55 pm
shadexiii wrote:
...was there supposed to be some sort of question there?
I'm not interested in meaningless sex.
Relationships take work.
Relationships are not having someone there to fulfill your needs, without anything in return. It is a mutual thing. If you don't want the "hassle," go for random, meaningless sex. If you want more than a one night stand, then it is going to take effort. That's life.
I'm not interested in meaningless sex.
Relationships take work.
Relationships are not having someone there to fulfill your needs, without anything in return. It is a mutual thing. If you don't want the "hassle," go for random, meaningless sex. If you want more than a one night stand, then it is going to take effort. That's life.
I just don't think it is worth the effort. I basically need to satisfy my sex drive somehow; and I'm not completely 100% sure I could develop an emotional attachment to someone else.
Pugly wrote:
I do believe I am quite different than most guys. My relationship desires are almost feminine.Most guys just want sex, and relationship concerns just come along for the ride.
This is probably why I am so confused. I think many of the guys with Asperger's act completely different than guys who are Neurotypical. The "NT's" are just basically more prone to the "jerk-like" behavior which gets the girls. The "As's" are much more likely to be nice guys; but nice guysdon't usually end up getting the girls(In the experiences I have encountered).
I could just imagining asking all the guys in my dorm right now what they wanted- Sex or a Relationship- They would all be like "Ummmmm, yeah; A Relationship.(While thinking about sex exactly as they are saying this).
Deus_ex_machina wrote:
See when I look at the OP I see "This is my opinion and I want to see people agree with me". It's like he's trying to convince himself that sex without strings is better than relationships on some objective level. And that at the same time guys are lying to themselves about what they want. Pffft, I'm not interested in simple sex.
I guess that might have been my intent, but I wrote the post at 12:30am so I was also tired.
I didn't necessarily want other people to agree with me, because different people have different tastes and opinions.
However, I do think that most of the guys I know want the same thing as me; at least in college
.
08 Oct 2007, 4:17 pm
08 Oct 2007, 5:50 pm
Brian003 wrote:
I just don't think it is worth the effort. I basically need to satisfy my sex drive somehow; and I'm not completely 100% sure I could develop an emotional attachment to someone else.
(I saw that ToadOfSteel beat me to this...but I still couldn't resist.)
Brian003 wrote:
This is probably why I am so confused. I think many of the guys with Asperger's act completely different than guys who are Neurotypical. The "NT's" are just basically more prone to the "jerk-like" behavior which gets the girls. The "As's" are much more likely to be nice guys; but nice guysdon't usually end up getting the girls(In the experiences I have encountered).
Mmmm...generalizations all around.
Brian003 wrote:
I could just imagining asking all the guys in my dorm right now what they wanted- Sex or a Relationship- They would all be like "Ummmmm, yeah; A Relationship.(While thinking about sex exactly as they are saying this).
You have a device that allows you to read minds???
The schematics. Give them to me. Now.
Brian003 wrote:
I didn't necessarily want other people to agree with me, because different people have different tastes and opinions.
However, I do think that most of the guys I know want the same thing as me; at least in college.
However, I do think that most of the guys I know want the same thing as me; at least in college
....why is this a
situation for you? You already stated that different people will view this differently, so that can't be related to it...
If most guys want a one night stand, that's less guys that will tie up the women in those "pesky" relationships... so you still would have plenty to pick from... so why the
?
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08 Oct 2007, 6:41 pm
shadexiii wrote:
08 Oct 2007, 6:42 pm
08 Oct 2007, 7:07 pm
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08 Oct 2007, 8:44 pm
Never sicker! Boy do I remember that one... 
09 Oct 2007, 8:25 am
Ughhh...do not mix. Mixing is BAD folks. 
09 Oct 2007, 8:27 am
09 Oct 2007, 8:48 am
09 Oct 2007, 8:55 am
I like just about anything
in a can 
But, cheap
s**t in a glass, just offends
my senses.
I don't see much difference
between Milwaukee's Best,
and PBR, TBH.
For 40's, I used to love something
called Midnight Dragon. Haven't seen
it in over a decade though.
09 Oct 2007, 10:16 am
Oh heck I don't think I remember anything other than cheap beer. I have no taste buds left.
Anyone remember something called "Apple Malt Duck"?...nasty apple flavored stuff. I think they brought it out back in the 80's.
09 Oct 2007, 10:22 am
Makes me think of Woodchuck....evil stuff.
09 Oct 2007, 10:28 am
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