siuan wrote:
I had trouble finding a partner with whom I was compatible. Mostly I felt guys were too needy. In 2000, I met a wonderful guy in a place neither of us wanted to be, and something just clicked. A month later we were engaged, six months later we were married, and now - seven years later we're still happily married and we have two awesome children together. Communication can be tough, being that we're both aspies, but we get through it. He shuts down when confronted, I take DAYS to see what point he was trying to make, lol, but eventually we see eye to eye and we know eventually we do.
Don't get discouraged yet!
From the females perspective, guys ARE! Frankly, it is nice if a guy needs YOU, not just any woman, but YOU! Isn't that what really FORCES it to work, at least from the womans perspective? Besides, from the males perspective, many women are needy. And, as long as it doesn't get TOO out of hand, THAT is nice also!
I AM glad to hear stories like yours, even if they aren't much more meaningful than the NT variant. At least reasonable, available, and accepting women exist.