Ideal partner

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punk? am i?

in the immortal words of Puss-In-Boots....
"For you, baby....I could be"



wrowwwwwwwl!

Moderator:
This thread has been split so that off-topic posts have been moved to new threads: 'Yet another quarrel' and 'Rejection'. I would like to encourage everyone to continue the interesting and pleasant discussion about ideal partners, started by pizzaboss. Thanks!

thank you, Magic!

hurrah! so, where were we...?

Attractive (I like dark hair and brown eyed girls..find them less threatening for some odd reason but I like blonds and redheads too) I'm not big on fat but I don't like the starving toothpick idea either.
And to get a little more detailed: I like nice legs and butts.....(sorry girls if you think i'm a pig and I offended you)

Active, I am an outdoor nut so I expect a girl to measure up and like the outdoors too. I ski/snowboard/surf/sail/ride personal watercraft/hydroplanes/snowmobile/travel and I like to just go for walks and hikes. I love beaches and almost every beach activity you can name right up to bonfire gatherings.

Talkers: I like girls that always have something to say because I like to listen. It's difficult for me to try to think of things to talk about but if someone else initiates it then i'm ok.

Infidelity: I have zero tollerance for it, it's something that animals do.
My only girlfriend got drunk one night and got with 3 guys in one night...that was the end of her. For some stupid reason we saw each other a few times after that but weren't in a relationship anymore.

I like blonde and brunette. Like Kathleen when it comes to blondes or the soccer girl when it comes to brunetts.

light brown skin, brown eyes, dark hair, pretty smile, curvy but not too big, a little shorter than me, good cook, caring, funny, intelligent, mature (i tend to be attracted to older women), loyal, can't be superficial, concerned about her appearance, but not vain (i hate that!), helps if she has some of the same interests as me (has to like hip-hop music), can't smoke or be alcoholic, wants to have kids. i can compromise on most of the attributes on my list, especially the physical attributes, but the ones underlined are a must.

gosh, you expect alot.

For me,

loyal
attractive
laid back.

Top 3. Nothing has to be perfect.

Damnation, LGB, could you give it a rest with you-know-who?!

KE is beautiful though.

Knock it off though lgb, before people start complaining again....

my ideal woman is someone who would randomly knock on my door because most days i'm too petrified, anxious and suicidal to leave the house

I think it's great that you think she's beautiful, but on the other hand, we are all sick of hearing about her. I must add that you have been better about posting in more appropriate places.

I was once the same way about the United States as you are about KE. People got so sick of me talking about America, that they didn't want to hang around me, anymore. Now I try my best to keep my obsessions to myself, unless somebody brings one of them up.

My ideal mate would be a strong Christian man who is completely devoted to me(I would be completely devoted to him, as well). He would take charge and lead, but not be too bossy or dominating. He would be able to say no to me and keep to it, even when I'm mad at him for it. He would want children, but not right away, and he would be a good father. He would be respectful of me and my standards of physical+emotional purity. He would support me as a stay at home homeschooling mother. He wouldn't be disgusted by my weight(fat). He would like to eat, because I love to cook. He would like many of the same things I like. He would not grudge me my book obsession(ongoing) and he would be able to tolerate all my other obsessions. He would be strong emotionally and mentally. He would want to protect me. He would be able to pick me up when I get depressed and make me look at the positive. He would be patient and kind. He would share enough of my opinions, and have enough that are different. He would not mind my level of cuddlyness(high) He would not want to watch horror movies, or movies with lots of sex and violence. He would not like mainstream country music, heavy metal or rap.

i guess a girl who can understand me and is not too busy(blondes, brunettes, redheads, whatever, they all look good to me). Also one who is not too critical and overreacts.
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-Wired enough like I am to where she wouldn't have to put extra effort into 'understanding' me. Preferrably feeling the same life situation herself to a greater or lesser degree.

-has all kinds of integrity.

-doesn't feed on drama

-won't feel like my displays of emotion or gestures as a boyfriend aren't good enough (to be practical, I'd like to think she'll be worried enough about herself to where we'll cancel eachother out)

-doesn't need me to be popular or know all kinds of high-up people in the local club-owning scene who's names I can drop.

-doesn't need me to have that certain magic bisiswah that so many women get insulted by my not having.

-is pretty open-minded to different styles of movies, music, doesn't mind coffee shops as opposed to bars.

-she'd be a nerd but in the sense of being real, the kind of 'cool nerd' who's just free to be. Someone who knows how to chill and can teach me not to be so damn highstrung.

-doesn't mind the NT edges I like to wear (mostly with my clothing, certain angles of my presentation, etc.).

-doesn't cheat (I don't believe in giving into that "I can't help it - I'm a guy" crap, I'd want the same of her).

-won't have that 80/20 attitude where if I can't treat her that well she knows lots of guys who will.

-a girl who's down for a romantic relationship which has a strong friendship at the base

-a girl who's down for a relationship where we mutually empower eachother rather than trying to corrode eachother's identity

-neither of us will need to have the other 'whipped'

techstepgenr8tion, does she have a sister?