Human Obsession

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Me in a nutshell. Eventually I move on however. Like there's this new guy...

I've been like that at various points... There's this evil girl i'm still not completely over too.....
I think it's probably almost a universal AS trait. You get a thing for someone and all your focus that normally gives you your outstanding ability in whatever is your area (computers, art, whatever) is transfered onto this person.

I've had no choice by to eventually learn not to let these things develop. Since i'm (rather inconveniently) bi, there's no escape from having to deal with that kind of thing. Especially since in accordance with murphies law it's always straight girls I get obcessions over.

I don't know if I would call them "crushes", but I tend to become immensely fascinated by a person after first meeting them, and will gush about them on and on for weeks, until I meet another new person who takes over that part of my brain for a little while. My husband found this difficult to deal with at first, because he thought I was falling in love with these people, but now he is used to it and doesn't feel threatened anymore. In fact, he says he is inspired by my love for and intense interest in my friends, which is almost always from a distance, as if I am studying them.

Who? Tell me do! I love things like this I love stirring pots.