U see a guy who u think is cute, how do u get him intrested?

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I wouldn't know the first thing about giving you advice on how to get men. I don't know what other men want, I only know what I want, and that's something quantifiable. Women act exactly the same when they're flirting as they do when they're not, and based on that, i'm supposed to ask a girl out. Then again, nobody has said yes yet, so theres always the possibility that women really aren't flirting with me.
As a word of warning, one girl did approach me and ask me for a date. Once. I didn't go for her for two reasons:

1. She said she'd e-mail me her number and waited two weeks to do it.
2. I was terrified that she went for me without ever talking to me, therefore she must have chosen me based on my looks and that when she realised I was a freak she'd think i'm a terrible date.

If you want him to be interested, just get down on your knees, and make an "O" shape with your lips. He'll take it from there.













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Just ask him out on a date, be flirty with him, feel his arm and all that stuff, hold his hand. I don't know. Guys are generally easy to get. Chances are he'll probably go for it. I know girls don't normally ask the guy out, but guys like that sort of stuff

Getting a single guy's interest is one of the easiest things in the world. Guys are way less picky than girls then you just have to make him know that you are interested. If he doesn't show interest after your approach them there's one of these 2 reason:
-he's gay
-you're not at least attractive enough for him

^or men being way too picky.

I just thought I'd post this if a girl really wants to try to get to know me w/o being the first mover she can smile at me it doesn't have to be a great smile just a smile and then stand/sit near by which basically means I like you come talk to me.

I can't speak for other men but this is my bare essentialls and everything else is a perk:

*Smart (which I define as the capacity to learn along with the will and want to do so rather than already know a bunch of facts one can regurgitate)
*Not hideously ugly or fat (I lost 77lbs myself, feel so much better along with the general loss of apathy and bunch better eating habits. I don't want a 250lb 5'6" girl who eats bags of doritos like one should carrot sticks. Ruin my eating habits and flat out isn't attractive, at least to me)
Actually wants my attention.

As for being attractive I have strange tastes in what is considered attractive. Many guys I know who will cringe at a girl for whatever reason I will find extremely attractive. I'd kill for a vegetarian, artist, who is an Anthropology major and loves to eat cheese and drink wine but you know what I'll take whoever I have feelings for.

Now attracting their attention is dirt easy. Question is will you still want it when you've got it?

I'm not picky at all. Personally if a girl is interested in me and she comes over and plainly tells me that she is interested in me after we have talked for awhile (so I'm not weirded out and get to know just a bit about her) she is automatically attractive for thinking outside of the box and the willingness to deviate from social norms, confidence, and being straightforward. I'm sure many other shy guys appreciate this too.

But if he isn't the shy type then perhaps you should try smiling at him, making sustained eye contact then looking away, if you are sitting with him point your legs in his direction, playing with your hair when he looks at you, make casual contact while you talk (like touching his wrists, arms, and shoulders), and mirroring his movements (although I think that is unconscious anyways). I think those are most of the nonverbal signals girls make when they are attracted to a guy. However, like I said if that guy is anything like me all the stuff I just said will have absolutely no effect whatsoever, you can smile at me all day and I'll just think oh thats a happy girl...so a direct approach may be necessary.

But you probably know all that already. So all I can do is wish you good luck!

lol. The are millions of those at University. They're not all that they're cracked up to be. A lot of those "lefty che guevara t-shirt wearing activist artsy-fartsy liberalist chicks" are oddly enough a lot more conformist than you think. They are often "daddy's girls" from upper-middle-class families, who are "rebelling against The Man". They are basically spoiled preppy princesses with an artistic talent, and a desire to fit into a subculture, which they think is cool.

Excellent advice. I would react the same, "party girl, therefore I'm not interested." If you're not a party girl, it's a bad idea to disguise yourself as one to attract a guy.

I would add to the possiblities ToadOfSteel mentioned, he might for whatever reason think you're not interested or wouldn't be interested. There's also ordinary shyness to consider.

As DWill points out, you approaching him may in and of itself make him think more of you, as it shows confidence and thinking outside the box.

It should be a lot easier for a girl to let a guy know she's interested. Most guys crave attention all the time - from anyone. Even if they aren't interested in you in the same way or even find you attractive, a guy will still be flattered to know a girl likes him.

Maybe that's just me.

Just ask him on a date!

He'll say yes. If he says no, then he's probably gh3y, or has some other girl on his mind.

Guys are simple.

Tell them you are interested and they will respond.

If he's uncomfortable with a women being so direct with him then he isn't worth it.

However if he tells you he like you back then you are in the clear.

Countless times I have women come up and let me know. If only that were the case

No but really, just tell guys how you feel.

If you want to be subtle, find out things he is interested in and then join in the same activity with him. EG Baseball. Ask him to teach you how to play ball.

Then eventually just give him a kiss and he will either be pleased and return the favor or be dumbfounded and then enjoy the pleasure.

-Zane

It's not possible to be too obvious with a guy. Dating is such a painful process most guys will do anything to avoid it. This is your only concern, he may be too likely to say yes for your tastes.

Thats why I avoid them. I can tell when people are putting on acts and most of them with those che guevara shirts are.

Vegetarian anthropology majors are usually pretty genuine about it. The artist part is the hard bit but meh thats why I'd kill for it.

Problem for most guys is that if you aren't the confident type (which I'm not) we won't make the first move. Culture has dictated that men NEED to make the first move, which is bollocks. If I knew for a fact that a girl liked me and wanted to go out on a date I'd be all over it like a dog with a tennis ball. Genuinely afraid to be rejected and even more afraid of what would happen after the fact, particularly if shes already a friend.

Cleavage. He'll notice.

Of course, so will every other guy in the room.

It's a myth unless you are a stereotypical, NT woman. Confident girls do it all the time. Also you can just show interest and he'll probably get the picture.