I fail to understand this girl

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27 Apr 2008, 6:08 pm

I sincerely doubt she dislikes you, and since she is so open with you she does consider you a friend. If you have limited computer time, share a computer with other family members, or do alot of research/business on the computer...AIM can be annoying, I haven't run for ages myself because of the fact. You chat, and the next thing you know 2 hours have gone by and you haven't got anything done.

I think you're right, she doesn't talk on AIM for the same reason she doesn't talk to alot of people on the phone, she seems to have goals for her life and is set on accomplishing those goals.

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27 Apr 2008, 7:02 pm

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Have you talked to her about this? One time, a friend of mine accidentally blocked me from his buddy list and didn't realize it until a year later.

this made me chuckle because not everyone is a genius on computers. I blocked this one guy and was ever so mad at him for ignoring me when I was online. Boy did I feel like a dummy when I realized I had him on my ignore list.

does she KNOW she has you blocked?

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27 Apr 2008, 7:57 pm

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xyzyxx wrote:

Have you talked to her about this? One time, a friend of mine accidentally blocked me from his buddy list and didn't realize it until a year later.

I dunno, I didn't ask, nor do I plan to.

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27 Apr 2008, 8:23 pm

weather1man wrote:

sinsboldly wrote:

xyzyxx wrote:

Have you talked to her about this? One time, a friend of mine accidentally blocked me from his buddy list and didn't realize it until a year later.

I dunno, I didn't ask, nor do I plan to.

why would you want to go to the movies with someone that frightens you?

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27 Apr 2008, 8:47 pm

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xyzyxx wrote:

Have you talked to her about this? One time, a friend of mine accidentally blocked me from his buddy list and didn't realize it until a year later.

I dunno, I didn't ask, nor do I plan to.

why would you want to go to the movies with someone that frightens you?

everyone frightens me. she doesn't but confronting her or anyone on something like that does.

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27 Apr 2008, 9:21 pm

maybe she's just...I don't know...DUMB?

What's to understand, homes? She's just dumb!

Some people are just dumb, when it comes to relationships. It's never anything you did.

lol.

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27 Apr 2008, 9:54 pm

Why do you say that?

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27 Apr 2008, 11:30 pm

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When someone blocks you on msn/aim that means that this person dislikes you and doesn't want to chat with you.

then why not delete me off fb too?

Because she wants you, or at least wants too appear like she wants you, in some respects as a friend. Different people have different social groups they interact with.

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28 Apr 2008, 9:58 am

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So as I posted before I met this girl at my job and whatnot. Now I added her to my fb and she WAS cool with that, and i aimed with her some. Then one day she quit replying then blocked me. So I was like ok, that makes no sense, but w/e this girl just isn't into me. Yet, she still chats with me on facebook and at work she talks to me more than almost anyone there about her life, or what's she is doing. She said before that she didn't want people calling her unless they are her best friend, and maybe she now feels the same way about aim? Or maybe she's to busy to talk to me on it and just blocked me so I wouldn't get upset or think she was ignoring me. So either this girl really dislikes me, or something else. If she disliked me it seems like she wouldn't chat with me at work. I mean she chats with some of the girls, (as most girls do) but she does seem to chat with me more than most of the other guys. Then on top of that... another guy tried to speak to her and she would not say a word to him, even though he asked her direct questions. Has anyone else seen anything like this? It's highly confusing.

I had a similar experience weirdly enough it was from the aspie affection site and I wasn't to bothered about it due to the fact that I found her annoying. Personally my advice is cut off all contact with her it seems to look like shes trying to act like your always pursuing her (its how my last ex is). In the end its not worth the problem and by ignoring her she may grow a new respect for you and come back around though even then I'd still ignore her.

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28 Apr 2008, 3:58 pm

Ha, this same girl asked me today to work for her. Which I agreed to, turns out the mananger says I can't since I'm already working that day, even though not at her shift. So i'm disappointed about that, but yea she loves to boss me around in some ways. I also mentioned the aim thing and she said she just didn't go on much, which is partly truthful i guess. She still blocked me but I think my original assumption was true. I think it's slightly likely she'll go to the movies with me as friends.

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28 Apr 2008, 9:39 pm

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just out of curiousity why bother? she chose to act immature and block you so what is the common ground there. It could work but I don't know it just seems your going to go through these lengths for someone who just isn't worth it. Also watch out that shes not acting to her friends that your badgering her and your relationship with her is out of her pity.

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28 Apr 2008, 10:00 pm

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Well because I like her is why. I'm not badgering her, we are just friends. I'm obviously not going to date her, but I hope to become better friends.

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28 Apr 2008, 11:26 pm

weather1man wrote:

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Well because I like her is why. I'm not badgering her, we are just friends. I'm obviously not going to date her, but I hope to become better friends.

maybe its just a frame of reference difference but its like I don't know trying to fix something that is so broken for some reason she chose to block you. If you brought up to her that she did and all she said was I'm not on much that doesn't address the problem. All relationships are about communication and shes not communicating with you for whatever reason. I just hope it has the outcome you want to but I'm cynical by nature.

Note: none of this is supposed to be an insult I'm just stating my opinion.

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28 Apr 2008, 11:42 pm

Women worry what you think of their past if they like you. So they are less likely to spill it all out. Logically then, she only likes you as a friend.

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29 Apr 2008, 12:18 am

Dude!
you are moving away.
she knows you are moving away
why would she set herself up to become better friends with you if you are going away?

you are in a relationship by yourself, you know.

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29 Apr 2008, 3:40 pm

Meh, I see plenty of others posting these kind of threads yet everyone says to me, your going to fail while they say to them go for it. I mean what does moving have to do with asking her to a movie for one time? blah

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