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LePetitPrince
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30 Apr 2008, 1:28 am

^^No man, I was giving her a 100% genuine advice for her own good and for her guys' good too.

She obviously see the guy 1 and 3 as less attractive than guy 2. She see the guy 3 as friend and when a girl see you as friend = she can't see you as boyfriend , so in my opinion #3 is out of the question.
So the real battle is between 1 and 2 , she's more attracted to 2 for some reason so she surely see 1 as less attractive than 2. If she does the mistake by choosing the shy guy 1 , the guy 1 won't be happy with her...believe me, she 's unconsciously going to compare him with the determined and confident guy 2 and one day she's gonna say "if I only chose the other guy".

I am trying to help her to choose the one that fits most with her + trying to save the 2 other guys.



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30 Apr 2008, 1:50 am

what about a fourth contestant? ;)


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30 Apr 2008, 2:09 am

I'm going for number 3, he sounds a bit like me. :lol:


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30 Apr 2008, 2:36 am

I'm too sexy, choose me!


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30 Apr 2008, 2:42 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
^^ Good girl, that's the right attitude, don't forget to tell us later which one you picked.


Good Girl? :?

What is this a dog we're talking to? LOL.


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30 Apr 2008, 2:52 am

hey be nice! She's a lady you know


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30 Apr 2008, 3:25 am

Preferrably.


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30 Apr 2008, 3:35 am

Good girl, good boy , good man , good woman ...... I can't see why it's an insult :-/ .

btw humans are not better than dogs



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30 Apr 2008, 4:23 am

^Well, I'll agree with that last statement.


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04 May 2008, 4:08 am

*bump*

any updates on this?


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05 May 2008, 12:30 am

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another one is EXTREMELY attractive, but I've been told that he's a bit full of himself. He's also inconsistent with his attempts to hang out with me. He'll call me Wednesday and say we should plan something on Friday night, but friday passes and he calls again Saturday. This really bothers me!


Never get serious about a guy who behaves towards you this way.

He's treating you lightly, so you do the same.



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07 May 2008, 4:34 am

*bump* results?



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07 May 2008, 4:48 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
Your case is a fine example of the natural selection in the serial monogamy system.

Pick the best one, the alpha male among these three. You'll regret later if you don't and the beta will live misery with you because you are unconsciously going to compare him with this alpha each time you get upset of him.
How to detect the alpha? You are a girl , you should know better.

You can make a comparison table to make things easier , put scores to each one of them for looks, wealth, success, confidence, personality.... and pick the one with highest score, the alpha male. I witnessed a girl did that before and it's quite helpful.

Unlike the popular belief ,love is very logical. If illogical love exists or 'love from first sight' exists you wouldn't even post this thread.



What do you mean by alpha male? Can you give an example of physical traits and emotional traits?



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07 May 2008, 5:02 am

^^ there's a whole sticky thread about this.

In short, it means...the best male as choice.



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09 May 2008, 12:01 am

*bump*

So what alpha won?


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09 May 2008, 12:33 am

I think that she went with alpha (#2)

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