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Serissa
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22 Oct 2005, 11:08 am

PhoenixKitten wrote:
Lol, my first flirting 101 class came from a girl who was in a psychiatric hospital with me, who was convinced that flirting consisted of draping your arms around a guy of your choice and then making out! :roll: No wonder I was screwed!

Funnily enough, I have observed that if nothing else, the funnest, most common flirting involves teasing, generally with some physical contact. With one of my boyfriends, we sat in a car together 'fake punching' each other for about five minutes and the punches got slower and softer and eventually we just didn't pull away and then we started holding hands and then... aww it was so cute! Oh yeah, and for some reason, teasing the hell out of them is quite common!


Because it's fun to annoy people!! !



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22 Oct 2005, 8:23 pm

How right you are! :lol:


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23 Oct 2005, 3:35 pm

I had this girl who was flirting with me the other day. I didn't find her attractive, and tried giving her the signals but she kept going. It got to a point where she was telling me what she finds attractive in males (the hands btw), and how she likes guys to rub their fingers across her lips and that she sometimes will suck the middle finger. :roll: She was all over the place.... I couldn't help cringing.

I'm hopeless at flirting and signaling to the flirter that I'm not interested.



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23 Oct 2005, 4:06 pm

I'm hopeless at telling if the other person is intersted or just being nice.


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23 Oct 2005, 4:36 pm

Sarcastic wrote:
I'm hopeless at telling if the other person is intersted or just being nice.

Aren't they kind of the same thing.
We're nice to people we want to get to know better, and we flirt with people we want to get to know better. Better then acting like an ass and expecting people to be nice to us.



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23 Oct 2005, 4:50 pm

I meant when I'm approached for the sole purpose of social communication. In other words, when a girl wants to talk to me for no apparent reason is seen as fliritng in my eyes.


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23 Oct 2005, 5:19 pm

Well yea. She probably is testing the waters to see what kind of person you are.
Even NTs don't usually strike up conversations with people that they are not interested in getting to know better.