Lol terrible idea with girl at work!

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Don't get me wrong, if you can get laid and walk away unscathed, good for you, that's absolutely the best that could happen here.

You're equally clearly going to do the stupid thing and follow your c**k, no matter what anybody tells you.

I'd still wait till she was out of the relationship with her boyfriend.

Dude, you have no idea what you're in for.

If you want a relationship, at least wait till she ends it with her boyfriend.

Points to consider:
-She has a kid. Are you up to helping raise him?
-If she cheats on her boyfriend, wait makes you so sure she wouldn't do it to you?
-You're still in medical school. Finish your education before doing anything that could interfere.

Alright. So. lol.. wtf...

Ok, I was sitting next to this girl in a van at work the other day. Everything was all well and good, but then she tilted her body to lean on me instead of her seat. Apparently it took me forever to notice, but I did eventually, and said something about it that totally didn't matter.

Anyway, then.. lets see... she probably pushed my head to rest on the top of her's and I did for a bit. Blah blah, getting more comfortable with each other I put my arm around her abdomen she rested her arm on my thigh, and we started kissing a bit.

Alright, first, basic info:
I'm 20
She's 2 months older than me

The problems:
She has a son who's 4
Her "baby's daddy" is still in the picture (but is a douchebag to her, she knows it too)

The fun parts:
I've only known her for 5 months or so, but in the last couple of days I worked with her (3 in 3 weeks) I feel like we have a really strong emotional bond. We talk about a lot of things, problems, etc.
On the day that we were, whatever you want to call it, I swear to god, I felt closer to her, and more comfortable with her, than any of my girlfriends in the past. I had absolutely NO fear when I went to kiss her -- all of my ex's took me like, 15 minutes to muster up a peck
I honestly feel, no exaggeration, that she displayed greater emotional affection towards me on that one day than any of my ex's had during their respective stints with me.

The now:
People at work have gotten awfully suspicious of us, so we've toned down a lot of everything. Very reasonable. She told me (i think this is what she meant anyway) that nothing can really happen between us because she can't really leave her boyfriend, she lives really far away from me, and also it's hard for her to *leave her son* somewhere to spend time with me.

My interpretation:
We both really want to be with each other, but we both have our own circumstances that don't really allow that to happen.....(etc etc etc)