My dates don’t hiding their desperateness

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Unfortunately thats what A LOT of young american women do.

Agree, I'm now realizing that there are some people who will only use others as trophies just to socially impress others rather than having any interest in that partner AKA trophy.



Agree with that as well. It comes off as annoying and personally it gives the impression that they're not really interested in you. For instance, the "need" for a one night stand (so to speak) rather than a relationship.

I can't seem to quote the other post about women being open and honest. LOL, I find many posts by guys saying they wish more women were open and honest. I think to a certain degree there is a difference between being desperate and being open and honest. Of course they're going to come off as open and honest if they're desperate enough (pun intended).

In the OP's context however, I don't see how one who shows an interest in another while using a dating site can be deemed desperate unless they're open and honest about it.

MissConstrue Those women probably do have an interest in me so however they are not that skillful about the way they do it, unless they know what they are doing.

I do want an honest woman. And if I like her, it doesn't matter if she lacks social skill or strategies or put their foot in their mouth. But she doesn't know what guy she is dating, NT guys can suck.

That's what a lot of people, of both sexes, and all ages, in all Western countries, do.

Doesn't make it right.

Most people believe themselves noble until the time comes; however, I don’t have the luxury of lying to myself. Such a small percentage of aspie marry and stay married without a divorce, it is much easier with another aspie.

^^ don't put yourself down, Aspiechav. You are a very good looking bloke, and seem very caring and sensitive.

Even though you are a pommy I bet there are lots of Sheilas who would love you.