what do you want from a partner?

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I'd love to make funny/dumb videos with my boyfriend, maybe animate a ridiculous cartoon and post it on newgrounds. We've talked about it before. That'd be perfect!

Same here, just without that scary lookin dude attached to it --->

who said she was talking to you

there is nothing wrong with what she wants

It may sound facetious, but the main thing I want in a partner is for her to be feminine. I don't care about any specific looks, because I find the female form attractive in general. My definition of feminine includes high intelligence, there's no way women are any more or less intelligent than men, but it may be a different intelligence.

It's hard to define,but it's something different, in contrast to, maleness. I want a partner who is sensitive, warm and nurturing to the less strong. I don't want a female who strivesto emulate all the worst excesses of men. I can manage that myself.

I feel I've got a good idea of what I want.

I want somebody that is loyal, honest, and very accepting of who I am. I want somebody that will be there to care for me when I fall on hard times emotionally, to whom I could return the favor. If we're both in the middle of a depression, then we can always just spend time indoors together in each other's arms.

I want somebody with plenty of quirks. I don't want anybody that is too 'normal'. I desire a certain extent of intelligence, at least to the point we could calmly discuss politics, and share our differing views in an enlightening manner. I want a certain level of calmness though. We should be able to discuss our differences in religion/politics without getting upset at each other, no matter how different we are in those areas. I know I could manage this, but the question is could she?

If we were to get distressed or upset, I would want us to be able to retreat into each other's arms, and just hold each other and talk until things are better. Physical intimacy and affection are needed without question. By 'intimacy' I don't mean sex, but rather just being able to cuddle and be near each other, where I can put my arm around her at nearly any time without either of us feeling uncomfortable.

My bad for misunderstanding, heh.

Well, a few things:
-Collaberate on artwork together. I'd use my writing, she'd do whatever she did. So if she sung we'd write songs together. If she painted I'd write a story and she'd illustrate it. Stuff like that.
-Dance together, masquerade-style
-Definitely a concert here and there
-Watch tons of movies (yay!), and play video games if she liked them
-Plain old sitting and talking and joking around, holding each other as we speak of nothing, and of everything, speaking in a faux-dramatic, formal fashion in fake accents
-Introduce each other to kickass new music
-Erm. Physical things. Hah. >.> Ranges from cuddling to kissing to caressing to fondling to grabbing to sexing to smooching to licking to whatever lascivious desires come upon us.
-Read to each other, sing to each other (and laugh at each other when we do it badly)
-Going out in the night




Dude, I'd so want to do that with my girlfriend if I had one.

Here we go:

*Honest and trustworthy (although not brutally honest)
*Must be caring and understanding.
*Must be a little bit intelligent. Ignorant and fake people annoy me.
*Someone with a sense of humor, but can also be serious when need be.
*No selfish users. My ex g/f was a narcissist...need I say more?
*Someone with a similar lifestyle that shares the same values, hobbies and outlook on life. So, no everyday "cookie cutter" girls.
*Must be creative

Basically what I am looking for is a soulmate...heh

A wise decision!