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11 Aug 2008, 3:09 am

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I apologize if this seems "invasive" or anything, I do not intend it that way. do you a pic or vid of yourself to link here so we can see?

I'm in agreement here. Post a pic so we can more accurately analyse (ooh British spelling) the situation. :lol:

Okay *deep breath* here goes:

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11 Aug 2008, 3:10 am

I believe sex is slightly more interactive than that, at least good sex. Still, if you are looking for a relationship with a british man, just remember to lie back and think of England :wink: .

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11 Aug 2008, 3:11 am

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Maybe people in Britain tend to falsely report rape more often than Americans. Doesn't mean one country rapes more than the other or that one is better at catching rapists. Maybe the definition of rape differs between the two countries. There's not enough information to come to a valid conclusion.

The definition of rape is the same the world over. It's international.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:16 am

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The definition of rape is the same the world over. It's international.

some would say females can't rape by definition, you can't be raped with a broomstick, if they're married it's not 'rape', if the person didn't resist it's not rape, if the person dropped the soap it's not rape, etc.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:18 am

AnAlias wrote:

I believe sex is slightly more interactive than that, at least good sex. Still, if you are looking for a relationship with a british man, just remember to lie back and think of England :wink:

That is such a funny saying... :lol:

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11 Aug 2008, 3:19 am

IdahoRose wrote:

Okay *deep breath* here goes:

You seem okay. Cool.

Also yes, it's a good idea to abandon the religious thing. People would go to better chances/waters, or some quote/saying.

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That's what other people keep telling me. I always imagine sex as being: I lay down and shut my eyes tight and let the man have his way with me while I wait for it to be over.

Lay down and think of England

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11 Aug 2008, 3:19 am

IdahoRose wrote:

Praetorius wrote:

Warsie wrote:

I apologize if this seems "invasive" or anything, I do not intend it that way. do you a pic or vid of yourself to link here so we can see?

I'm in agreement here. Post a pic so we can more accurately analyse (ooh British spelling) the situation. :lol:

Okay *deep breath* here goes:

I believe you are very attractive. The whole romance thing will come given time. The last thing you want to do is rush it, cause that very rarely ends well. I think you'll have more or less the same experiences looking for romance wherever you go, but britain is not a bad place to start.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:20 am

IdahoRose wrote:

That's what other people keep telling me. I always imagine sex as being: I lay down and shut my eyes tight and let the man have his way with me while I wait for it to be over.

That is a great example of what sex is not. Just make it very different from that description and I think you'll be okay.

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The definition of rape is the same the world over. It's international.

Now there is a thing called "rape by deception". Like if you tell someone that you're really rich, famous, someone who you're not, etc., that can be considered rape.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:20 am

IdahoRose wrote:

AnAlias wrote:

I believe sex is slightly more interactive than that, at least good sex. Still, if you are looking for a relationship with a british man, just remember to lie back and think of England :wink:

That is such a funny saying... :lol:

OH SHI-

he said it before I did, didn't catch it until now. Damnit it, you win :oops:

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11 Aug 2008, 3:22 am

Warsie wrote:

slowmutant wrote:

The definition of rape is the same the world over. It's international.

Rape is nothing to make light of. I think you knpw what rape is.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:22 am

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OH SHI-

he said it before I did, didn't catch it until now. Damnit it, you win :oops:

Mmmm... Gotta love Victorian sensibilities.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:24 am

IMO it's good if the woman moves around a little. Lets you know she's not a corpse. :wink:

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11 Aug 2008, 3:52 am

Praetorius wrote:

Mmmm... Gotta love Victorian sensibilities.

IM SO BRITISH

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Rape is nothing to make light of.

Unless you're raping a clown :wink:

Yeah, the later ones were...more jackassed

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I think you knpw what rape is.

some of what I said is true, why many nations now use the term "Sexual Assault" instead of "Rape" more often.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:54 am

The defining characteristic of rape is penetration.

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11 Aug 2008, 3:57 am

slowmutant wrote:

The defining characteristic of rape is penetration.

in this context, yes. Conceded.

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11 Aug 2008, 4:39 am

IdahoRose wrote:

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Sex is not something to be terrified of, there's nothing to it really and it is supposed to be fun!

That's what other people keep telling me. I always imagine sex as being: I lay down and shut my eyes tight and let the man have his way with me while I wait for it to be over.

'Lay back and think of England' as we say...It's kind of an outdated idea now. Many girls are much more forward now: there is no shame in going after something you enjoy.

I think the key is being comfortable with the pleasure you can get on your own; once you get a taste for that you start looking at men in terms of 'so what can you do for me?'.

Everyone needs to learn their own body first and feel comfortable with themselves. If you can't get aroused on your own you certainly won't do any better with the pressure of having another naked person there!

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