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14 Aug 2008, 6:13 am

if you want to have sex with her make sure to wear 2 condoms and an anti-radiation suit.

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14 Aug 2008, 10:02 pm

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Okay I asked her out and all, problem though when I was talking to her it didn't seem like she was looking for love, she is looking for casual sex. When she got to that part and told me she had been with 5 men in the last 2 weeks who have not been tested for stds nor were they wearing condoms, I was thinking this b***h is dirty, she is better to keep as a friend, and not the kind you f**k. I expressed this, I told her I am not into this health risk of a lifestyle. Has anyone had any weird experiences like this?


You were right to get away from her.


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15 Aug 2008, 2:48 am

LePetitPrince wrote:
if you want to have sex with her make sure to wear 2 condoms and an anti-radiation suit.

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2 condoms is more dangerous than one :) (the rubber rubs together and tears/rips)



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15 Aug 2008, 9:12 am

Rynok wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
if you want to have sex with her make sure to wear 2 condoms and an anti-radiation suit.

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2 condoms is more dangerous than one :) (the rubber rubs together and tears/rips)

Not if you secure it with duct tape



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15 Aug 2008, 1:15 pm

Whether it was a 'ruse' or she was telling you the truth (and if she was, frankly she deserves credit for her honesty because she opened herself to possible insults and judgment) sounds like a no-go.

Don't let it stop you from asking other girls out though. Everyone out there is unique.



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17 Aug 2008, 6:13 am

technologyforever wrote:
Okay I asked her out and all, problem though when I was talking to her it didn't seem like she was looking for love, she is looking for casual sex. When she got to that part and told me she had been with 5 men in the last 2 weeks who have not been tested for stds nor were they wearing condoms, I was thinking this b***h is dirty, she is better to keep as a friend, and not the kind you f**k. I expressed this, I told her I am not into this health risk of a lifestyle. Has anyone had any weird experiences like this?


hmmmmmm, you sure she wasn't just trying to get you "uninterested"



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17 Aug 2008, 11:36 am

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I looked at her face book there were a bunch of pictures with new guys. Like 300.


Don't most people on Facebook have a few hundred 'friends' who they've probably never met?

Really, I don't see the big deal, so she's looking for casual sex and was upfront about it at the get-go. She's a bit irresponsible, but most young people are. If you weren't interested, fine, but I don't see the point of you coming online and telling everyone about it in a burst of moral outrage. I've had this sort of thing happen to me once and it was no big deal, I just declined politely. No need to be hostile in that situation.


In my case, that could be true, however the fact that I have 700 people or so on there, that know me, (I know about half...my nickname at school and my dj show) is not a set standard.

The same could be said for myspace as well(then again two years ago I had about 1000 friends, most of those were RP sites that I was friends with) however, with Myspace, and Facebook the whole privacy feature is a good deal, unless you work for my department, as which we have ways of getting around that, and so does the school.......actually I think the admissions people have the IT people go through the photos.

So put it this way, that girl is probably going to not be considered for a good college if any admissions councilor in his/her right mind looks at her photos.


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17 Aug 2008, 11:40 am

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I looked at her face book there were a bunch of pictures with new guys. Like 300.


once again, my response to this is this: "read when 'God Writes Your Love Story,' By Eric and Leslie Ludy. It's an awesome book. waiting for God or wahtever power you believe in to direct your soulmate towards you. It's what I'm doing. and it's what I reccomend."


how's that working out for ya', Gamester?



It's going very well, thank you for asking. God has me in a place right now where I'm very comfortable with being single, I like it, though at the same time, he has brought in a wonderful girl who I've been friends with for a while, who he has me watching out for, she's had issues with guys in the past, all three boyfriends of hers were all jerks, and the current slew of guys isn't any better, so she's doing what I did, read the book and waiting for God to direct her. So I'm there for her as well, and she's a wonderful person. I was down near by my college on Friday night, and she got off work to come see me, at 11 at night, ended up staying up til 2 in the morning talking, and then she stayed the night in the spare bedroom and I took the couch downstairs. And then yesterday (Saturday) she came with me to my family reunion thing for a couple of hours. So I'd say in answer to your original question, God's blessing me and bringing me good friends.


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17 Aug 2008, 11:46 am

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Okay I asked her out and all, problem though when I was talking to her it didn't seem like she was looking for love, she is looking for casual sex. When she got to that part and told me she had been with 5 men in the last 2 weeks who have not been tested for stds nor were they wearing condoms, I was thinking this b***h is dirty, she is better to keep as a friend, and not the kind you f**k. I expressed this, I told her I am not into this health risk of a lifestyle. Has anyone had any weird experiences like this?


hmmmmmm, you sure she wasn't just trying to get you "uninterested"


that's what I said, too, Betterclassed! I was in similar thread that was discussing how they deter door to door religion peddlers and they were talking about the outrageous ruses and displays of truly juvenile behaviour all to get them to leave by their own decision (and quickly!)


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17 Aug 2008, 3:05 pm

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technologyforever wrote:
Okay I asked her out and all, problem though when I was talking to her it didn't seem like she was looking for love, she is looking for casual sex. When she got to that part and told me she had been with 5 men in the last 2 weeks who have not been tested for stds nor were they wearing condoms, I was thinking this b***h is dirty, she is better to keep as a friend, and not the kind you f**k. I expressed this, I told her I am not into this health risk of a lifestyle. Has anyone had any weird experiences like this?


hmmmmmm, you sure she wasn't just trying to get you "uninterested"


1. If so, mission accomplished.

2. If so, then it worked out well for both because who'd want to date someone who doens't like them?



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18 Aug 2008, 5:31 am

Gamester wrote:
Enigmatic_Oddity wrote:
technologyforever wrote:
I looked at her face book there were a bunch of pictures with new guys. Like 300.


Don't most people on Facebook have a few hundred 'friends' who they've probably never met?

Really, I don't see the big deal, so she's looking for casual sex and was upfront about it at the get-go. She's a bit irresponsible, but most young people are. If you weren't interested, fine, but I don't see the point of you coming online and telling everyone about it in a burst of moral outrage. I've had this sort of thing happen to me once and it was no big deal, I just declined politely. No need to be hostile in that situation.


In my case, that could be true, however the fact that I have 700 people or so on there, that know me, (I know about half...my nickname at school and my dj show) is not a set standard.

The same could be said for myspace as well(then again two years ago I had about 1000 friends, most of those were RP sites that I was friends with) however, with Myspace, and Facebook the whole privacy feature is a good deal, unless you work for my department, as which we have ways of getting around that, and so does the school.......actually I think the admissions people have the IT people go through the photos.

So put it this way, that girl is probably going to not be considered for a good college if any admissions councilor in his/her right mind looks at her photos.


Yes, because promiscuity is 100% positively correlated with being hopeless academically... :roll:


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18 Aug 2008, 2:51 pm

technologyforever wrote:
Okay I asked her out and all, problem though when I was talking to her it didn't seem like she was looking for love, she is looking for casual sex. When she got to that part and told me she had been with 5 men in the last 2 weeks who have not been tested for stds nor were they wearing condoms
You know she was telling you the truth how?



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18 Aug 2008, 2:53 pm

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(chuckles) well, I can see her technique works!
And here I though it might have gone over w/ a bit of tact. Too late I guess... ;)



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27 Aug 2008, 2:31 pm

I know she told the truth because I saw some people in their I knew did that sorta stuff, yes I am talking about people who f**k anything that walks. They said she does that, and she goes to all the parties and does that. The reason I asked is I saw them in a photo, barely clothed.



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27 Aug 2008, 2:42 pm

Don't just do her, do her well.



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30 Aug 2008, 12:29 am

Well your friend is incredibly foolish and immoral if she is seeking relationships for "casual sex". It shows that she is not interested in a true, deep, meaningful relationship, and that she is going to get her heart hurt many times. Therefore you were wise for your decision. STD or not, it is an issue of what's morally right and what is sensible and logical.