21 Sep 2008, 10:29 pm
21 Sep 2008, 11:49 pm
22 Sep 2008, 12:03 am
hale_bopp wrote:
Was she drunk? It may be the alcohol.
I really think you're on to something
. When girls get drunk(especially after a breakup) they seem to like to flirt with lots of guys;particularly ones they know and even better if they know the guy had a crush on 'em. What I would do is play it cool when a drunk girl, EVEN one you know and like starts to flirt with you and even back off if she starts to get really physical. Thats about the only way you really can avoid situations like this IMPE.
25 Sep 2008, 10:22 am
RogueProcess wrote:
I bump into a friend who I've not met in years, mainly because for the interluding years, she was attached to a complete good-for-nothing, abusive slob of a human. She immediately latches on to me, tells me how much she's missed me, hugs me, holds my hand, dances with me and all the rest. Now I'll be honest, yeah, I've had a bit of a thing for her. For, like, years. But what I didn't realize was that during the course of the night, she'd been doing exactly the same thing to a load of other people, many of whom I would consier my good friends.
I was absolutely furious. So the one thing she wants to do after being in a relationship with such a feeble excuse for a form of life, is to go whore herself out to whoever else she can find who she thinks still cares about her? Yet again, I'd been led on for no good reason without even suspecting a thing.
So why am I writing this? Basically I'd like to know from anyone so kind as to let me know - how do I avoid such a thing happening in future? Is there any way to tell if someone is just leading me on? The same thing has happened to me on many occasions before, and I'm never able to tell the difference between that, and if somebody is actually genuinely interested in me
I was absolutely furious. So the one thing she wants to do after being in a relationship with such a feeble excuse for a form of life, is to go whore herself out to whoever else she can find who she thinks still cares about her? Yet again, I'd been led on for no good reason without even suspecting a thing.
So why am I writing this? Basically I'd like to know from anyone so kind as to let me know - how do I avoid such a thing happening in future? Is there any way to tell if someone is just leading me on? The same thing has happened to me on many occasions before, and I'm never able to tell the difference between that, and if somebody is actually genuinely interested in me
This is exactly the same for me too.
29 Sep 2008, 9:58 pm
Haliphron wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
Was she drunk? It may be the alcohol.
I really think you're on to something
. When girls get drunk(especially after a breakup) they seem to like to flirt with lots of guys;particularly ones they know and even better if they know the guy had a crush on 'em. What I would do is play it cool when a drunk girl, EVEN one you know and like starts to flirt with you and even back off if she starts to get really physical. Thats about the only way you really can avoid situations like this IMPE.Or maybe she took E. It would certainly explain the touchy feely thing. Also, it wouldn't be terribly hard to know if someone's drunk.
And like someone else said - clubbing?! Something I'd never do because weird stuff like that might happen. Too much human contact in a short period of time. More importantly, I don't dance.
I have to admit, i too had a thing for a girl for years. But what I ultimately realized was that she really didn't care about me. I was just some guy she had a class with years back. So I've learned to turn off my stalkerish instincts and gauge my feelings against what others probably feel about me.
