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26 Sep 2008, 5:43 am

dalekaspie wrote:
I asked a girl i like out twice and was rejected both times ( the first time she said yes and changed her mind after 30 seconds and the second time it took her 4 days to say no) weve agreed to stay freinds but i havent talked to her in ages


what would you do?


Cut her off completely, she's only gonna bring up feelings you don't need to be dealing with. I know what it feels like to be thought of as less of a person (one of the feelings I get from rejection). They say the best revenge is living a good life, so I have a habit of improving other areas of my life (this is how I quit smoking), all I can say is my luck has improved since I was younger.



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26 Sep 2008, 11:13 am

no my intention is to be freinds with her not to ask her out again



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26 Sep 2008, 11:17 am

well you said in the thread title that you love her, it seems to me it would be hard to square that with just being friends with someone.



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26 Sep 2008, 11:30 am

dalekaspie wrote:
no my intention is to be freinds with her not to ask her out again


Personally I would take a around month off from seeing her then decide if you still want to be friends if the friendship still stands. You can say to her, you just need to have some time away.



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30 Sep 2008, 11:46 am

it wont don't worry, vader ftw