16 Oct 2008, 9:22 pm
sinsboldly
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16 Oct 2008, 9:27 pm
poopylungstuffing wrote:
It seems as though there are lots of regular guys who would pull it off if they could....so why not girls?
It really only works when there is consent and communication between all parties involved.
It makes for some confusion. It really has stretched my mind out quite a bit. At the same time..there is alot of pain and other crappy stuff that has been alleviated by the arrangement...
i always kill threads when I start talking bout poly stuff....In the past though..I never thought it would happen in a million years I was rigidly against it...mainly because i could not wrap my mind aroud it.
but my main point was to bring up my "Gender-queer" friend...who is about as ASish as anyone I know could be.
It really only works when there is consent and communication between all parties involved.
It makes for some confusion. It really has stretched my mind out quite a bit. At the same time..there is alot of pain and other crappy stuff that has been alleviated by the arrangement...
i always kill threads when I start talking bout poly stuff....In the past though..I never thought it would happen in a million years I was rigidly against it...mainly because i could not wrap my mind aroud it.but my main point was to bring up my "Gender-queer" friend...who is about as ASish as anyone I know could be.
yeah, I always kill threads by posting about BDSM stuff. Lots of people are just not ready for it, no matter how safe, sane and consentual it is.
Merle
