Aspie girl thinks she can only date another aspie, BUT

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I do not get bored of people, especially girls/women.

women get 'insatiable' when men don't have a clue about sex and are not open to suggestion.

Merle

To all those who replied back to my statement, let me clarify. Psychology DOES state that men view love in the sense of sex, eventually. That doesn't mean that I consider men sex-loving maniacs who are players and only care about sex. There are guys in this world who value more things than sex, but in the end, sex is what a guy will deem as an action of love, or one of the most gratifying aspects of love. It does not mean he solely seeks to have sex, it merely means that it is one of the things he will consider an act of love.

My, aren’t we quick to go straight to personal insults. Rather immature of you, and I’ll have you know that I don’t think about sex when I look in the mirror each morning. I’ve been single 21 years and I have grown more than apathetic about women, therefore I don’t even bother dating or looking for some gal to screw. Before you decide to mouth off, think before you speak. What I wrote above was MY interpretation based on what I read in psychology.

WurdBendur,

I like your analysis, it makes a lot of sense. But mind you, hating me or other who have different ideas and opinions is not a good way to make friends in life.

Uh... Autisticmalcontent, toddlers don't date.
Where on earth do you read that "psychology", authored by whom?!
Bah, nonsense! The reproductive act is no more or less important to the psychological makeup of either gender; besides which, not with the intent of being insulting, you essentially labelled yourself de facto asexual, or at least very disinterested, with little or no experience in any sort of a relationship. Frankly, you're opinion doesn't count for s**t, not without personal experience to at least give foundation for your claims. May sound rude; but it is apt.

Everyone's always a critic

Yes photos please

I don't hate you because you disagree. I hate you because you're a git.

Well isn't that the pot calling the kettle black. A git is an ignorant childish person who is lacking in manners, and this seems more than descriptive of you. If you had any manners, you wouldn't feel the need to insult other people to get your point across, and it takes a very immature/childish person to start name calling. Arrogance is the curse of mankind, if people tried to live civilly and not let their own egos get the best of them, we would have a lot less problems then we already have. Curse men and their pride, it does not serve them well at all.

dude, youll realise that many people on WP are above the bigender system and the whole current "gender war" simply through being "out of the loop" to regular NT's and what they deem is relevant....you need to think VERY CAREFULLY before you make such SWEEPING STATEMENTS, as "men do X" and "women do X"

there are such a thing as individuals in this world, you know!

<3 xander x

You are entitled to your opinion. I will say that I have much more regard and respect for you than these other pompous loud mouthed fellows who come here and call be a moron or a fool and think they are superior to me. I don't mind people disagreeing with me, but I do not like being openly insulted about my opinions. There is nothing worse in this world than a judgemental bigot who thinks he has the authority to call other people fools or the like and does not think about his own actions when he says it.

i have no authority...and really....isn't that the whole point?????

I think the (mis)conception comes from the difference in social tendencies between Aspies and NTs. I've never been in any kind of relationship so if I'm talking out my ass here, I apologize for it. However, I imagine that most NT women are women who want to go to various parties and other social gatherings fairly frequently. It also seems that many NT women want to spend quite a lot of time on the phone with their significant other. When my guy friends have girlfriends, it seems they have to spend at least an hour and a half a day on the phone with each other, even when they don't have anything to say. Again, this is just a preconception, but it seems that these issues would be less strenuous if both were Aspies. After the initial infatuation wears off, I believe I would resent feeling like I have to be on the phone for an hour or more and I definitely wouldn't want to go more than 1 social function a month.

I think the (mis)conception comes from the difference in social tendencies between Aspies and NTs. I've never been in any kind of relationship so if I'm talking out my ass here, I apologize for it. However, I imagine that most NT women are women who want to go to various parties and other social gatherings fairly frequently. It also seems that many NT women want to spend quite a lot of time on the phone with their significant other. When my guy friends have girlfriends, it seems they have to spend at least an hour and a half a day on the phone with each other, even when they don't have anything to say. Again, this is just a preconception, but it seems that these issues would be less strenuous if both were Aspies. After the initial infatuation wears off, I believe I would resent feeling like I have to be on the phone for an hour or more and I definitely wouldn't want to go more than 1 social function a month.

I have always thought I wouldn't respect a 'God" that wasn't above all that gender stuff, anyway.

Merle

I didn't insult you to get my point across. I think I made my point perfectly well, mentioning only in passing that I would probably hate you in real life.
It was your whining afterwards that really convinced me. Besides which, why did you really feel the need to to tell me the definition of a word I just used? And not even a good definition. Did you think I didn't know what it meant? Or did you just want to change the meaning so you could apply it to me?

Either way, playing the victim won't save your argument. You're still wrong. And I still find you annoying for completely different reasons.

If you are capable of self consciousness and can communicate with those around you so that those you are communicating with can understand you. You will have problems in dating like every other person on this planet.

(someone may want to be ultra pedantic, but I do of course only refer to humans and in a way implented deaf and mute)