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26 Nov 2008, 3:47 pm

Penelope_asparagus wrote:
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I don't how people can have so many criteria & guidelines - I've never had a clue what I'm looking for. I just go on chemistry, I guess?


Mine were "predictors of long-term success". And oh right I forgot chemistry! To remedy that: must be a geek.

(And it was stated that this is "perfect" partner.)


I know it specified perfect partner, I just don't know how people can have such a clear idea of what that would be for them.

(granted, yes, there is a lot of silliness)



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26 Nov 2008, 4:02 pm

Oh, yeah

23. Must be skinny, but not like a stick
24. Owns a car and is able to drive.



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26 Nov 2008, 11:14 pm

I think the criteria that far outweighs anything else for my dream girl would be existing in real life.
Anyway...

Affectionate
Understanding
Helpful in terms of my shyness.
Romantic but with a firm grasp of reality
Eyes that seem either to have a celestial glow or a warm infinite depth (this seems to occur naturally in any girl I like)
Moral and responcible in the ways that matter.
Music afficianato
Flute player
A strong sense of individualism
Devoted
Caring

All things I like to imagine in a dream girl.


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26 Nov 2008, 11:20 pm

Quote:
Flute player


Lol!



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27 Nov 2008, 1:11 am

- Talks about things that are interesting to me
- nice hair
- doesn't wear blue jeans (I might have to give on this, but at least doesn't wear them every day of the week. I like slacks!)
- not sexually demanding (I'm a bit erotophobic)
- thinks I'm pretty

This is more like a list of what I require. I don't have any ideals, really. I'm too inexperienced to really know what I want.


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27 Nov 2008, 1:34 am

The variety and specificity of the criteria listed here astounds me, I must admit. Not negative, just rather surprised.


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27 Nov 2008, 1:47 am

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Perfect girl for me:
1. Intelligent
2. Compassionate
3. Fun
4. Just
5. Motivated
6. Hot
7. Vegetarian
8. Only behaves sexy for me
9. No promiscuous history
10. Finds me funny, intelligent and attractive
11. We must both feel intense love and trust for one another
12. Very affectionate
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

1. Female
2. Red/Blonde/Brunette/Black hair
3. Conservative Christian
4. Preferrably Italian (actually from Italy) or Southern (from the US)
5. Muscular and well-built
6. Beautiful name (i.e. Amy, Rose)
7. Long, shapely legs
8. Beautiful body
9. Cute face
10. Must be 2-3 years younger
11. large hips
12. Must be very affectionate
13. Gives me lots of hugs and kisses
14. Strong enough to give you a piggy-back ride
15. Would let you nap/sit in her lap
16. Must have similar interests
17. Must know her guys well, and more importantly, must know me well (i.e. knows what I want)
18. Must be Nurturing
19. Must be neuroptypical
20. Sense of humor, I don't really care, unless it's required for a relationship.
21. Must understand aspies very well.
22. Caters to my every need.
23. Must be somewhat aggresive and/or athletic

There might be more, but I do not know yet.


Why don't you just say completely submissive women who will never speak up and get it over with.



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27 Nov 2008, 1:53 am

my qualification for the perfect man:

1. can hold down a decent job
2. can take on a mortgage and a car loan
3. kisses me good morning when he comes in from cleaning and warming up the snow on my car.

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27 Nov 2008, 3:24 am

Kirska wrote:
My expectations as a child:
Blonde hair, buff, tall, smooth, sweet, treats me like a princess

My real SO:
Brown hair that's balding, thin, average to tall height, furry, teases me lovingly, and doesn't buy into the presents thing.

So yeah expectations can change for the right person :lol:


but if a real guy with such dream qualities pops up in your life and treat you like a princess , won't you dump your current bf?



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27 Nov 2008, 5:17 am

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The library is at one end of it, too.


Yes, except they suck cause they wouldn't let me become a member unless I had proof I lived in Brisbane such as a bank slip or something. Of course, all my bank details have my home address on the coast (I live in college during the year while I'm at uni).

It's very depressing, not being a member of a nearby massive library. I have certainly frequented a LOT of second hand book stores this last year...

There's probably some other way I could get around it... but I have to get around my supreme disorganization first...


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27 Nov 2008, 8:03 am

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The library is at one end of it, too.


Yes, except they suck cause they wouldn't let me become a member unless I had proof I lived in Brisbane such as a bank slip or something. Of course, all my bank details have my home address on the coast (I live in college during the year while I'm at uni).

It's very depressing, not being a member of a nearby massive library. I have certainly frequented a LOT of second hand book stores this last year...

There's probably some other way I could get around it... but I have to get around my supreme disorganization first...


That does suck. I go there a lot of the time just because it's somewhere quiet to read.


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27 Nov 2008, 8:14 am

Who_Am_I wrote:
sunshower wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The library is at one end of it, too.


Yes, except they suck cause they wouldn't let me become a member unless I had proof I lived in Brisbane such as a bank slip or something. Of course, all my bank details have my home address on the coast (I live in college during the year while I'm at uni).

It's very depressing, not being a member of a nearby massive library. I have certainly frequented a LOT of second hand book stores this last year...

There's probably some other way I could get around it... but I have to get around my supreme disorganization first...


That does suck. I go there a lot of the time just because it's somewhere quiet to read.


I wanted to, and I actually had some free time wandering the city after exams and was heading there, but then I met this really interesting busker at the underground corner leading to the train station, and spent several hours discussing philosophical ideas with him. :P

I've mostly read in my college room this year - it's very peaceful and quiet mostly during the day, and was high up - so it felt like I was suspended in the tree tops.


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27 Nov 2008, 8:30 am

sunshower wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
sunshower wrote:
Who_Am_I wrote:
The library is at one end of it, too.


Yes, except they suck cause they wouldn't let me become a member unless I had proof I lived in Brisbane such as a bank slip or something. Of course, all my bank details have my home address on the coast (I live in college during the year while I'm at uni).

It's very depressing, not being a member of a nearby massive library. I have certainly frequented a LOT of second hand book stores this last year...

There's probably some other way I could get around it... but I have to get around my supreme disorganization first...


That does suck. I go there a lot of the time just because it's somewhere quiet to read.


I wanted to, and I actually had some free time wandering the city after exams and was heading there, but then I met this really interesting busker at the underground corner leading to the train station, and spent several hours discussing philosophical ideas with him. :P

I've mostly read in my college room this year - it's very peaceful and quiet mostly during the day, and was high up - so it felt like I was suspended in the tree tops.


Philosophical discussions are good. :)
What are you studying?


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27 Nov 2008, 9:10 am

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Why don't you just say completely submissive women who will never speak up and get it over with.


How delightfully prejudiced.



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27 Nov 2008, 10:44 am

Hurricane_Delta wrote:
RedHot wrote:
Zxen wrote:
Perfect girl for me:
1. Intelligent
2. Compassionate
3. Fun
4. Just
5. Motivated
6. Hot
7. Vegetarian
8. Only behaves sexy for me
9. No promiscuous history
10. Finds me funny, intelligent and attractive
11. We must both feel intense love and trust for one another
12. Very affectionate
:heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart:

1. Female
2. Red/Blonde/Brunette/Black hair
3. Conservative Christian
4. Preferrably Italian (actually from Italy) or Southern (from the US)
5. Muscular and well-built
6. Beautiful name (i.e. Amy, Rose)
7. Long, shapely legs
8. Beautiful body
9. Cute face
10. Must be 2-3 years younger
11. large hips
12. Must be very affectionate
13. Gives me lots of hugs and kisses
14. Strong enough to give you a piggy-back ride
15. Would let you nap/sit in her lap
16. Must have similar interests
17. Must know her guys well, and more importantly, must know me well (i.e. knows what I want)
18. Must be Nurturing
19. Must be neuroptypical
20. Sense of humor, I don't really care, unless it's required for a relationship.
21. Must understand aspies very well.
22. Caters to my every need.
23. Must be somewhat aggresive and/or athletic

There might be more, but I do not know yet.


Why don't you just say completely submissive women who will never speak up and get it over with.

Delta, I may be a CC, but I am not a bigot in any form.



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27 Nov 2008, 10:48 am

JohnHopkins wrote:
Hurricane_Delta wrote:
Why don't you just say completely submissive women who will never speak up and get it over with.


How delightfully prejudiced.


I made a whole bunch of arguments concerning conservative Christianity in the Italian women thread, so I'm not going to repost them here...
http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt83887.html