So.... what counts as losing your virginity?

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Hurricane_Delta
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29 Nov 2008, 12:43 am

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Any sexual contact with another person is losing your virginity.


My hand sometimes acts like it has a mind of its own. Does that count?


You have Alien Hand Syndrome? :P

In all seriousness though, a person, I my opinion, loses their virginity when normal male-female intercourse is done.



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29 Nov 2008, 12:48 am

Hurricane_Delta wrote:
ToadOfSteel wrote:
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Any sexual contact with another person is losing your virginity.


My hand sometimes acts like it has a mind of its own. Does that count?


You have Alien Hand Syndrome? :P

In all seriousness though, a person, I my opinion, loses their virginity when normal male-female intercourse is done.

So homosexuals are perpetual virgins? :lol:



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29 Nov 2008, 1:35 am

One could argue that it could come with orgasm (in many cultures, that'd be unlikely); I've known people with all sorts of definitions... a girl who had anal sex so she could maintain her 'virginity', for example. I think it comes down to what the individual decides - I think penetration of some sort could be argued as just cause.


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29 Nov 2008, 2:17 am

My definition is pretty broad.

A sex act happens.

A being of your own species not you is involved in some way in said sex act with you.

Virginity lost.

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29 Nov 2008, 2:25 am

frankcritic wrote:
My definition is pretty broad.

A sex act happens.

A being of your own species not you is involved in some way in said sex act with you.

Virginity lost.

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Actually, you're definition is better than mine. Mine had a flaw in it.



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29 Nov 2008, 2:26 am

I didn't get engaged to a sex researcher for the better part of a year for nothing.

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29 Nov 2008, 11:00 pm

Were any of you "technical virgins" in your teenage years?



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29 Nov 2008, 11:06 pm

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A being of your own species not you is involved in some way in said sex act with you.


Does this mean many bestial zoophiles never stop being virgins?



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29 Nov 2008, 11:13 pm

You have to draw the line somewhere, and I do it at sex partners capable of consent.

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29 Nov 2008, 11:44 pm

Oh, come on. We all know it's not rape if they can't say no.

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30 Nov 2008, 8:08 am

As far as I'm concerned, you have three virgnities - oral, vaginal and anal, the second being the main one. If you've lost your anal virginity, you're still essentially a virgin as far as I'm concerned.