Male aspies arousal problem

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Not everything that is weird is due to AS.


Premature ejaculation is a common health problem. Honestly, go to a freaking doctor, and stop thinking that everything wrong with your guy is because of AS. Aspies have NT problems too!

There is medication and therapy and stuff to help him.

It might also be a sign of another underlying health problem. Premature ejaculation can also be a side effect of medication. So, um, go to a freaking doctor.

I have to agree with my brethren on this one. You best be gettin' your bf to a doctor. CALL THE DOCTOR!

I have a high libido and rare opportunity to share it and I have frequent "wet dreams" and this is in normal range at least last time I read a book about sex. Even when I was too young to know what sex was I noticed that while using my imagination (daydreaming) certain fantasies would arouse me and I'd of course stay in them. Since I didn't know anything about how to have sex, the most peculiar things would arouse me. Here is an example.
Don't forget I already told you I was too young to understand sex then!
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfQseUDQB2o[/youtube]
If you need an explanation of why this would have been arousing, I believe it has something to do with the same reason kissing may be arousing, plus the magic power of words actually appearing out of the lips.

[quote="ValMikeSmith"]I have a high libido and rare opportunity to share it and I have frequent "wet dreams" and this is in normal range at least last time I read a book about sex. Even when I was too young to know what sex was I noticed that while using my imagination (daydreaming) certain fantasies would arouse me and I'd of course stay in them. Since I didn't know anything about how to have sex, the most peculiar things would arouse me. Here is an example.
Don't forget I already told you I was too young to understand sex then!
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfQseUDQB2o[/youtube]
[b]If you need an explanation of why this would have been arousing, I believe it has something to do with the same reason kissing may be arousing, plus the magic power of words actually appearing out of the lips.[/b

Interesting. I think he has a high libido and has not expressed it in years if not at all! He is constantly travelling and is a workaholic so not many chances to meet the right woman. I wonder how I should bring up the topic with him without having him get embarassed.

....and since all of us are creeps with arousal problems then why you are posting this thread here? We might all feel aroused and start masturbating on your thread...

^ you don't really want to know ...

It's rare but there are some people who just orgasm very easily. Just as there are rarely people who are physically incapable of it. Couldn't hurt to check it out with a doctor but there might not be anything you can do about it.

Hey, its embarasing but just be glad hes not one of those on the other end of the scale, right!