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richardbenson
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16 Dec 2008, 12:58 am

ive probably made up a few storys of getting some but i only did it because it made me feel nt. thats so nt, maybe im just an obsessed nt and dont have aspergers ohwell looks like i will need to buy a fleshlight but there way to much. i aint dropping $70 on one forget it

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16 Dec 2008, 2:26 pm

NeantHumain wrote:

The truth of the matter is it's all hypothetical anyway! It's like trying to decide whether you'd prefer (excuse me, be oriented towards) dodo meat or passenger pigeon meat; either way, the bird's extinct—just like an aspie's chances.

If an aspie (male leastwise) claims to have had intercourse, then he or she is:

Lying (and probably badly considering the typical aspie's ability to lie)
Not an aspie
Neglecting to mention that he or she paid for the services duly rendered

Call me a pessimist, but this is how it seems to be.

*shakes head* NH, it's really depressing that we've come to taking pot shots at others on the spectrum to make ourselves feel better. Didn't realize that I was so deluded and confused... *fume* I think you need to pull your head out and get some fresh air instead on continuing to beat yourself up and convincing yourself of your own misery, but that's just my opinion - call me an optimist if you must.

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16 Dec 2008, 2:28 pm

NeantHumain wrote:

Lying (and probably badly considering the typical aspie's ability to lie)
Not an aspie
Neglecting to mention that he or she paid for the services duly rendered

Call me a pessimist, but this is how it seems to be.

If this is meant as a joke I have to say that I really Do NOT find it amusing and it can easily be construed as insulting to aspie men.It shouldnt be here in the love and dating forum. Otherwise, it sounds like TROLLING to me............ :roll:

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16 Dec 2008, 2:48 pm

NeantHumain wrote:

Blasty wrote:

not wallowing in self-pity, and therefore is more fun to be around, and therefore can make close friends, and therefore can have sex.

Self-pity is what all the "cool kids" in their "heightened schools" and places of hang are doing these days; therefore, it can't be hurting anyone's chances. Q.E.D.

Well I won't argue with you about what the 'cool kids' are doing. But I see plenty of self pity here, and not because it's the cool thing to do. Popular yes, but not cool. So many people seem to think that because they've been dealt a difficult hand in life, that they're absolutely hopeless. It's like they've given up before they've actually failed.

Aspies are not hopeless. We are kind, caring, fascinating people. Contrary to popular belief, there ARE people out there looking for such qualities in a significant other. Perhaps the biggest obstacle for an Aspie is just getting his/her self out there into the dating world to begin with. It's a huge step to overcome. I managed to do it, it was the hardest thing I've done, but it's well worth it. It was really just a matter of telling myself that I was tired of being overly cautious and lonely, and that I was just going to have to force myself out of my little box if I was ever going to be someone else. I'm dead serious, that's all it was.

Sure we're all born with s**t for social skills and no idea what goes on in 'normal' society, but that doesn't mean we can't step out and learn.

Just a rant.... whatever.

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16 Dec 2008, 4:29 pm

Blasty wrote:

Aspies are not hopeless. We are kind, caring, fascinating people. Contrary to popular belief, there ARE people out there looking for such qualities in a significant other. Perhaps the biggest obstacle for an Aspie is just getting his/her self out there into the dating world to begin with. It's a huge step to overcome. I managed to do it, it was the hardest thing I've done, but it's well worth it. It was really just a matter of telling myself that I was tired of being overly cautious and lonely, and that I was just going to have to force myself out of my little box if I was ever going to be someone else. I'm dead serious, that's all it was.

Sure we're all born with sh** for social skills and no idea what goes on in 'normal' society, but that doesn't mean we can't step out and learn.

Just a rant.... whatever.

That's true, of course there's also people who want to take advantage of our positive qualities in a totally uncool way, but there's lot of people who think AS people are cool & fun and interesting! Heck, even coming off as sarcastic when making a (too) literal question can be used as a way to meet people and make friends. All you have to do... is smile.

(and I don't mean a sneer or sarcastic grin/grimace, but a real, nice, warm, charming type smile)

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16 Dec 2008, 5:54 pm

NeantHumain wrote: