I've figured out my sexuality.

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hale_bopp
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13 Dec 2005, 7:03 pm

AbominableSnoCone wrote:
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but just being attracted to a gender doesn't mean you like them like that..


Wha? that makes no sense to me...

I know that I'm not gay because I've never popped a boner while looking at a guy... I'm well aware that girls don't have that litmus test but don't you have some other kind of way that you can know what you find sexually attractive? 8O


Its very hard to explain.

I've gotten a rush a few times for things that have happened with females, yet the thought of doing other things with them does not turn me on at all.



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15 Dec 2005, 6:02 pm

its almost encouraging to see quite a few people are unsure..makes me feel slightly releived tht there are other people confused!...although i have a steady boyfriend there were a few girls before him and choosing girls or boys has never been very easy for me :? lol maybe im jus greedy :)



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15 Dec 2005, 6:04 pm

its almost encouraging to see that other people are confused too!....i have a steady boyfriend but there were a couple of girls before him :oops: and choosing boys or girls has never been easy for me...mayb im jus greedy :)



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15 Dec 2005, 6:13 pm

its kinda encouraging to see that other people are confused too!....i have a steady boyfriend but there were a couple of girls before him :oops: and choosing boys or girls has never been easy for me...mayb im jus greedy :)



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15 Dec 2005, 6:18 pm

Hmmm. No, I don't hate gays or lesbians. However, they make me nervous (admitedly, EVERYONE makes me nervous, so its nothing specific, just I tend to end up hanging around with my freinds in the area of the college that the lesbians also congregate... (well, actually, most of the girls in the college, but meh)


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18 Dec 2005, 11:49 am

why would anyone hate you? Who you are is just that; WHO YOU ARE! Im straight, and I have dated some gay men (long story). I am thought to be gay because Im so un-girly. But to know who you are deep down inside, is really all that matters!



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19 Dec 2005, 1:28 pm

Oh damn, you mean I'm the only one that hates Spacey? :P Just kidding, you know I love ya Casey, and I'm really glad that you're figuring yourself out! :D


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19 Dec 2005, 6:55 pm

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