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13 Jan 2009, 10:18 pm

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Fnord actually trying to be funny? :scratch:

Yeah ...

... not working, is it?

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13 Jan 2009, 11:01 pm

Hey, I can identify with you, and I'm female. I think that the first few weeks after the last time someone has sex can be torture, because the experience is still fresh in the mind, and there is a great deal of uncertainty on whether or when such an experience will happen.

I purposely went on an SSRI not just for depression, but to kill my sex drive. Having pent up sexual energy without anyone to share it with just makes the depression worse.

Too bad you're all the way across the pond. :wink:

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13 Jan 2009, 11:30 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:

flammed by virgins?

Hey, you don't wanna mess with those flaming virgins :lol:

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13 Jan 2009, 11:51 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:

some lovin right now. I feel like a caged animal right now :twisted:

I went like 4 years without sex before. Now its been like 2 and a half months, and i'm climbing the walls lol.

Prostitute? Idk I suggest you dont join the Army, now THATS real deprivation.

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14 Jan 2009, 1:06 am

yeh, but the Army feeds them Saltpeter, to tone down the urge...

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14 Jan 2009, 1:55 am

Skilpadde wrote:

Wanna talk about healthy? At least 10% of the females in my country have vestibulitis. A lot of them because they have duty sex. (They love their hubbies/boy friends and have sex with them even when they`re not in the mood, because they think they owe them that.)

This is sad. I don't believe there should be such a thing as "duty sex". Especially if one of the partners gets to suffer. That's selfishness, not love.

Usual thing, I guess. A matter of finding a balance. Abstinence or overdoing it are probably extremes to be avoided. Most people, male or female, can be put in the mood for sex with the right stimulus. It does generally take more effort for females, although I have met one that was very sexually agressive/demanding.

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14 Jan 2009, 6:45 am

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I'd swim the bloody pond the way i'm feeling :twisted:

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14 Jan 2009, 6:48 am

Airborne wrote:

benjimanbreeg wrote:

some lovin right now. I feel like a caged animal right now :twisted:

I went like 4 years without sex before. Now its been like 2 and a half months, and i'm climbing the walls lol.

Prostitute? Idk I suggest you dont join the Army, now THATS real deprivation.

And be surrounded by horny guys? :wink:

Lol, na, i'd just make do with a five knuckle shuffle, like, 3 times a day :bball:

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14 Jan 2009, 6:49 am

Shadow50 wrote:

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yeah, um whats her number? :wink:

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14 Jan 2009, 9:13 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:

yeah, um whats her number? :wink:

She's faithfully married now, so none of us can have her any more.

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14 Jan 2009, 10:55 pm

Shadow50 wrote:

A number of reputable and experienced medical practitioners

I wonder if they're the same folks who keep finding excuses to say that chocolate is "good" for you. :roll:

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14 Jan 2009, 11:19 pm

The people responding with "boo hoo" etc: you're not doing yourself any favors wallowing in your self pity to build up your pity trail of tears. There's no need to poo poo on other people's threads just because your love life isn't working. If anyone here deserves a "boo frigging hoo" it's you.

If you don't have anything nice or helpful to say, then don't bother responding. Sheesh.

To the OP: if you're just looking for casual sex, there are many avenues for that. Craigs list, adult friend finder, etc. etc. If you're looking for something with emotion that's a whole other problem

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14 Jan 2009, 11:22 pm

Skilpadde wrote:

Some women have the opposite problem. The men typically are the ones that would initiate sex in a lot of relationships. Some men might not want to bother her or inconvenience her, or wake her up, etc. and so don't initiate sex nearly as often as the woman would actually like.

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14 Jan 2009, 11:57 pm

Kirska wrote:

Then women should let the men know, in no uncertain terms that they're in the mood, instead of keeping us guessing...

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15 Jan 2009, 1:30 am

Cyberman wrote:

Shadow50 wrote:

A number of reputable and experienced medical practitioners

I wonder if they're the same folks who keep finding excuses to say that chocolate is "good" for you. :roll:

Actually, chocolate is good for you, a small daily dose of the really black stuff.

Milk and white chocolates are not real chocolate.

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15 Jan 2009, 1:34 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:

Kirska wrote:

Then women should let the men know, in no uncertain terms that they're in the mood, instead of keeping us guessing...

Exactly!

Do you know that look women get when they want you to have sex with them? ..... Nope? ...... Neither do I.

To Kirska ... so how often do women like?????

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