What is dating?
Relicanth7
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familiar_stranger wrote:
BellaDonna wrote:
Wombat wrote:
What the hell does that mean? That you are on your best behavior and that you will have sex the first or second or third time you see someone?
Do you want a life partner or not?
If so RESPECT YOURSELF and demand a partner who has self respect.
Do you want to marry a slut? Then don't be a slut.
Do you want a life partner or not?
If so RESPECT YOURSELF and demand a partner who has self respect.
Do you want to marry a slut? Then don't be a slut.
Having sex with some one on the second or third date does not make you a slut!
i class a slut as someone who doesn't bother with the dating part of it and just has sex as many times with as many different people as possible, i know someone will respond to this as 'you're a guy' but i don't see any problem with sex on a second or third date, there has to be a cut off point plus if you never make it past a certain number you're never going to experience it.
Once again the human mind has been manipulated by the most grotesque abomonation ever... Mass media
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I sometimes wish things were still like they were in the "old days". Maybe that would give a guy like me enough time to adjust to a relationship, without the woman running off prematurely. No, I don't have much experience to base this on, it's just one of those irrational fears that I have. 
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familiar_stranger
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Relicanth7 wrote:
i class a slut as someone who doesn't bother with the dating part of it and just has sex as many times with as many different people as possible, i know someone will respond to this as 'you're a guy' but i don't see any problem with sex on a second or third date, there has to be a cut off point plus if you never make it past a certain number you're never going to experience it.
Once again the human mind has been manipulated by the most grotesque abomonation ever... Mass media
if that was directed at me could you explain why? i try to keep what i think up to me and would hate being manipulated by anything especially the media.
jawbrodt wrote:
I sometimes wish things were still like they were in the "old days". Maybe that would give a guy like me enough time to adjust to a relationship, without the woman running off prematurely. No, I don't have much experience to base this on, it's just one of those irrational fears that I have. 

some women are old fashoined though just like some of us guys, the only problem is most women see nice guys as walkovers so you need to be carefull when to show it and how much you show when being a nice, deccent or old fashioned person.
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most people think i'm a bit strange, even abnormal. normal is the majority, the average, what is most frequent. if you lived around here, you'll see the positive of not being normal
