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BellaDonna
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28 Jan 2009, 5:39 am

DaLoCo wrote:

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There is a saying that nice girls always lose and b*****s get ahead.

Uh...maybe.... But b*****s only have one place with me, behind me kissing my.... Generally a bitchy person will meet with the full force of my a...hole side, I have no time for nasty people.

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28 Jan 2009, 5:53 am

I hope one day I can find a nice girl. That way I can form a deep emotional connection with her.

I've got complete trust issues with women, which isn't a bad thing. Women can be really two faced and manipulative.

Usually if someone acts really nice it is a sign that they are not. If someone is a little rough around the edges then to me it shows they are not hiding anything. Bah!! but it is hard to know, you really have to get to know someone.

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28 Jan 2009, 6:00 am

I'm not typically nice, but I'm not nasty. my mouth is just much quicker than my brain (I am a big appologiser though).

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28 Jan 2009, 6:02 am

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Bah!! but it is hard to know, you really have to get to know someone.

Absolutely right on!! !! Because we aspies can analyze and design formula for just about anything, we think we can use that approach to relationship. Then we rush and get hurt. The proven method is simply to take the time to get to know someone beyond a hot butt and nice smile. That way you will know whether it is only friendship, or much more. You will see the nice girl's true character when she is put under pressure, and sometimes you must wait for that.

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28 Jan 2009, 6:16 am

anna-banana wrote:

I'm not typically nice, but I'm not nasty. my mouth is just much quicker than my brain (I am a big appologiser though).

There is a massive difference between brutal honesty and bitchiness (Malevolence by virtue of being malicious or spiteful or nasty).

I think you are safe

! !! !

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28 Jan 2009, 6:26 am

DaLoCo wrote:

anna-banana wrote:

I'm not typically nice, but I'm not nasty. my mouth is just much quicker than my brain (I am a big appologiser though).

There is a massive difference between brutal honesty and bitchiness (Malevolence by virtue of being malicious or spiteful or nasty).

I think you are safe

! !! !

Errr I don't know about that bananna women.

She does have very sexy eyes though.

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28 Jan 2009, 6:26 am

Nice girls rule!

Bitchy girls can be a lot of fun for a while but in the end there always more interested in taking than giving and in my experience that gets bloody annoying after a while.

Having said that if you can find a generally nice girl with a bitchy side that just comes out now and then you have really hit the jackpot.

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28 Jan 2009, 7:07 am

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It might be appropriate in the context of "you're a nice guy, but"-rejections,

Women who say that are definately not nice. They fall into the catergory of women who are golddiggers, and women who trick a man into raising a baby that is not his own.

What if they think you're genuinely a nice guy but you're just not their type, physically, or you don't have enough in common with them?

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28 Jan 2009, 7:14 am

Hector wrote:

frodosam wrote:

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It might be appropriate in the context of "you're a nice guy, but"-rejections,

Women who say that are definately not nice. They fall into the catergory of women who are golddiggers, and women who trick a man into raising a baby that is not his own.

What if they think you're genuinely a nice guy but you're just not their type, physically, or you don't have enough in common with them?

THANKYOU. This can happen so much of the time. I must say I have turned down guys I generally like and think are really nice because I didn't feel romantically compatible with them (romantic attraction is a rare and elusive thing for me), and I genuinely wanted to be friends with them.

People seem to perceive me (until they really get to know me) as this ultra nice innocent person. When they get to know me, they add irritable, moody, stressed, and highly anxious to the list. :lol:

It's amazing how much guys are drawn to "nice" girls though. I think maybe guys are drawn to nice girls, whereas girls are drawn to confident (not a**holes, there's a big difference there) guys.

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28 Jan 2009, 7:29 am

Sunshower, you have summed up my thoughts better than I could have done so. Thanks.

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28 Jan 2009, 8:08 am

Of course they exist, they're just not as common as you would think.

It's a shame that kindness and compassion are widely regarded as "female-only" traits.

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28 Jan 2009, 8:21 am

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It's a shame that kindness and compassion are widely regarded as "female-only" traits.

Yeah, and only men can be called a**holes????? WTF :scratch:

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28 Jan 2009, 8:25 am

Women call each other a**holes.

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28 Jan 2009, 8:35 am

BellaDonna wrote:

Women call each other a**holes.

I have never heard that, probably a good thing..... I would have killed myself with laughter..... :lmao:

The thing is though, women have such a wide variety of insults reserved for men, but men seem to not have the same selection. Calling a girl an a**hole just does not really roll of the tongue as well as calling a man an a**hole.

One could surmise that girls in general are nicer than guys, hence the lower availability of insults reserved for the fairer sex. :shrug: