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01 Feb 2009, 8:02 am

If I'm in love - I am going to be proud about it and if people don't like it, that's just tough!



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01 Feb 2009, 3:45 pm

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Enjoy your new love Bella Donna and don't let anyone bring you down. But, please refrain from posting dumb headlines on myspace about every gory detail of your passionate affair.
And please, for the sake of all that is good in the world, please do not ever post a picture of you two kissing with tongues. That is just disturbing beyond country music.


You are quite comedic!! :lol:



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01 Feb 2009, 3:49 pm

I've never been in love, but I've been on the borderline, and it hurts like a bullet would, so I'm giving it a swerve from now on. Who's with me?! 8)


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01 Feb 2009, 5:26 pm

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People who are ga-ga about each other are so annoying. I overheard this girl say that she and her boyfriend are going away for the weekend.
Why don't you just ignore that sort of stuff?



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01 Feb 2009, 6:38 pm

me... well I've been in love more times than I've actually had girlfriends, not always showing I was in love, it was hard to hide it though because I just wanted the world to know I was in love

Being in love is a wonderful thing, I see no problems with people showing they are in love as long as they don't go overboard with it


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01 Feb 2009, 7:06 pm

I have been in love. My current partner I am dating said to me "Do you beleive in love at first sight" and I replied "I don't know"
We was attracted to each other, instantly.
However, I am re considering if I should move in with him because even though we get along well and more.. :twisted: We did get into a fight too. I have learnt that usually if you argue in the beginning of a relationship, it is good, it will work out long time. Excpet when he was trying to get me to listen to him he pushed me up against the wall. He was upset and the time so was I. I am reading relationship books at the moment to try and work out what is right and what isn't.

I know I really want to move out of my place.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:10 pm

I liked being in love.

Might be nice again some day perhaps.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:14 pm

I guess being in love and truly loving some one can be two different things? I think that is true. I know not to confuse the both.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:25 pm

Pikachu wrote:
Being in love is a wonderful thing, I see no problems with people showing they are in love as long as they don't go overboard with it


Agreed. At a certain point, I think it comes down to who you're really having the romance for- you and the S.O., or anyone within earshot?

In my experience, the special intimate moments that really keep a relationship going are more special if they're... well, intimate.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:29 pm

ford_prefects_kid wrote:
Pikachu wrote:
Being in love is a wonderful thing, I see no problems with people showing they are in love as long as they don't go overboard with it


Agreed. At a certain point, I think it comes down to who you're really having the romance for- you and the S.O., or anyone within earshot?

In my experience, the special intimate moments that really keep a relationship going are more special if they're... well, intimate.


You can be really intimate with some one and not love them... in my experience. Even though you could make love to some one the exact same way - it feels alot different if you really love them or not.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:34 pm

That is all I want is to be in love and spend the rest of my life with some one that doesn't hurt me. Some one that will make me happy and I them and they can't have any serious issues.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:35 pm

BellaDonna wrote:
You can be really intimate with some one and not love them... in my experience. Even though you could make love to some one the exact same way - it feels alot different if you really love them or not.


Sure. But I meant "intimate" as in "close and personal," not as a euphemism for sex.



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01 Feb 2009, 7:42 pm

ford_prefects_kid wrote:
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You can be really intimate with some one and not love them... in my experience. Even though you could make love to some one the exact same way - it feels alot different if you really love them or not.


Sure. But I meant "intimate" as in "close and personal," not as a euphemism for sex.


Yes this is important. If you continously have this kind of sex it is a sure sign that your relationship is going well.



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01 Feb 2009, 9:32 pm

ford_prefects_kid wrote:
Pikachu wrote:
Being in love is a wonderful thing, I see no problems with people showing they are in love as long as they don't go overboard with it


Agreed. At a certain point, I think it comes down to who you're really having the romance for- you and the S.O., or anyone within earshot?

In my experience, the special intimate moments that really keep a relationship going are more special if they're... well, intimate.
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01 Feb 2009, 9:35 pm

There is nothing worse than hate sex or your partner trying to have sex with you when are not getting along.



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01 Feb 2009, 9:45 pm

I think I am deciding not to move in with the guy I am dating because I am realising how much I need my own space. He works, still, I don't want him stalking me when he is there.

Beginning of relationships can be very intense. I will just say to him "I need more time."

He wants me to move in because he wants to see me more because we live a fair distance apart but I don't think I am ready for that yet. He said, "My DD can move in too and he will help me with her" but I was thinking what if it doesnt work out.

Then where will I live? I was excited about the idea at first but I can't just go where ever I want because I want my DD to come back and live with me this year.

Is it really love at first sight or is it just chemistry.. I want to be with him more except I know I go through periods where I need time out and if I am living with him I may not be able to get that.