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Anyone else feel this way?
Yes 56%  56%  [ 14 ]
No 44%  44%  [ 11 ]
Total votes : 25

Tahitiii
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09 Mar 2009, 11:57 am

Sorry, that's not what I meant.

I was talking about my first, incorrect impression, on the first read. If you're not careful, she or some friend could hear it that way and not try to think again. I did read it again and changed my mind. Not everyone will do that. It could still hurt her feelings, even though it is not true.



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09 Mar 2009, 12:07 pm

Tahitiii wrote:
If they can invent viagra and stuff like that, why can't they invent something that does the opposite? Not for all the time or permanent, but just for the roughest spots?

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I fully endorse the research into creating anti-aphrodisiacs, because it would solve a lot more problems than Viagra does.

Uh-uh. There's a common misconception (so to speak) that Viagra is an aphrodisiac. What Viagra does is increase blood flow down there; it does not ignite or increase sexual arousal. It's simply for men who feel the desire all right, but can't get certain physical manifestations of it happening.



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10 Mar 2009, 8:01 am

Tahitiii wrote:
Silvervarg wrote:
Get a dog. It worked for me.
If you've never been the primary caregiver for a dog or cat, there's no way to really explain why it's so good for your mental health. (A pet your parents had when you were a little kid doesn't really count.) I think Mcrakin should have a small dog. For B9, I think a cat would work better. Either way, you might try it by offering to babysit for someone who is going on vacation.

I never recomend small dogs to anyone. ^^ They are usually harder to bring up to become calm and nice dogs. Of course, if you mess up a big dog, you have a whole lot more problems than if you have a small dog. :P
Then again small dogs are cheaper in the long run. But I prefer a quiet dog over an inexpencive one. :D

Usually you can borrow a dog from a breeder if you are interested in buying a puppy, but unused to handeling dogs or want to experience the particular breed.


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10 Mar 2009, 8:07 pm

Kind of, except for me it's mostly the sexual desire.



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13 Mar 2009, 4:58 pm

I managed this. Trust me, it's not as attractive as it seems. I'd advise you to get used to the pain of wanting the impossible, because it's a lot better than the alternative.



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14 Mar 2009, 8:09 am

Rack wrote:
I managed this. Trust me, it's not as attractive as it seems. I'd advise you to get used to the pain of wanting the impossible, because it's a lot better than the alternative.

What makes you say that? Why is a lifetime of pain and misery so much "better than the alternative"?