14 Mar 2009, 10:55 pm
ghostpawn wrote:
Oh, that's not just to be friends? Heh, clueless aren't I?
Agree totally about the gamble. Hence the part about making myself more desirable, to help my chances as much as possible. Even if I 'm wrong and it wasn't the original intent of her invitation, she might still say yes.
exactly, just accept that the rules dont apply to us.
the "just friends" thing is something ive thought about lately. as a kid friendships are important, but as you reach a certain age, you arent really looking for friends as much as you were before.
a girl handing you a phone number, especially one who dont even know you all that well, thats usually an invitation for something more than just friendship.
now i say this, cus i figured it out in retrospect. WITH said chick, i just sat - and remained clueless ;]
i also got my proof, if friendship was what she wanted, and i came there, and delivered a nice evening full of chat and friendlyness, why havent she bothered to keep the contact up? probably cus she took MY interaction, that whole evening, as a lack of interest. she thinks im the one who just wants friendship, since i didnt make any moves on her.
so, the lesson learned for ME is - next time: make a move, force it out, unnatural, awkward, poorely timed, whatever. when all comes to all, chicks want sex too, and thats cus a chick told me!! ! i have inside information!!
15 Mar 2009, 10:11 am
