I don't really like sex...

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I don't mind about sex i think it's not bad but not in my interest and it's stupid to me. Why waste time. I prefer solitude than have a girlfriend. I have question for you who have the answer: Why i think it's stupid why a friend tell me he get laid or talk about his fantasm or talk about sex. Jealousy because nobody want of me? It's will never happen to me? My condition fustrate me? Sadness? I see my reality in face? Limit Asexual? Realist?. And i prefer pornography


It's my opinion and question

I've never had sex and possibly may never so I'm not going to worry about it anymore. The only way I could probably get any is to pay for it but I'm too much of a tight wad to do that.

I agree with you. I'm a virgin though so I've never had any sexual experiences. However, I really don't want sex. For one thing, it's risky. I don't ever want any children and there are diseases to watch out for. I just don't see any purpose in sex at all unless you want children. Other than that, I don't see any reason to do it. I guess the truth is, I'm afraid of sex and for good reason. I would probably be turned off by it. I'm attracted to girls like any normal guy would be and for me, making out and being passionate without intercourse would be good enough for me. Most people don't think that way so I suppose I'm at a lose here. I just can't help how I feel I guess.

I get angry when people here think I am a freak because I am not an asexual goob, or want a cure or that I like parties
you don't like sex-fine, but people who don't really have to stop bitching to people who do
I've not had sex, and I will-one day (when is the exciting mystery)-I have no hangups about anything sexual, its all human nature to me(I am rather open about what I find sexually attractive-I don't even stick to one gender lol) if someone wants a sexual relationship-I won't be all "no way-morals, blah blah blah" (I won't be in an affair, but more so if the guy found out he might hurt me :lol)
I'd be in open relationships-I am young, and I don't want to think about serious commitment and marriage and children-I'd rather not have to wake up one day and act like I am 40
I don't place it over everything or cry that I don't get it-it sucks, but life has challenges
when it comes, all the past will not matter anymore

think what you like-I will think what I like

The violence as well as the power is part of the sexual gratification in some of these people, and I doubt rape to be only about that, within psychology and psychiatry, given the complexity of the human brain, and given studies related to disorders, trauma, and few mental states, there should be more related to the issue in some cases.


well, I would be concerned about a guy or a woman for that matter with anger management issues and sexually deprived, not saying it is always the case, but there seem to be few cases of this. To be always about power it's something I put into question.

Last edited by greenblue on 01 Apr 2009, 11:10 pm, edited 1 time in total.

who are you quoting? Please state your sources.

Merle

When in doubt, OP, ask Dr Drew Pinsky. He's my idol.
(I used to listen to him every night.)

I'm asexual, really, but if my partner ever wanted something, I'd do my best to give it to her (asking is all that's needed).

Yes, I'm not the most romantic person, but that's how it goes with me.

Wow this is probably the most popular topic I ever made.

I jsut want to thank everyone for their input

I think Spiritualwoman had it good (with talking about finding someone without overwhelming sexual urges) so that way it gives us a chance to try to satisfy our partners, while it isn't overwhelming for us

Personally I like sex, I don't live for it, haven't in a few months now, if I was going to with someone it'd probably be a lot, though I wouldn't put pressure on the person, or I wouldn't bother pursuing a sexual relationship, I'd go for a friendship instead.

I had massive guilt issues when I was younger, when it came to sexual urges, but I'm guessing that was more to do with my freakishly Catholic upbringing than my Asperger's. Once I got over that, though, I have to admit I turned into quite the little sex addict....as in, I literally CAN NOT get enough, even if it's not terribly good sex. However, I have reason to believe that this is one of the very un-Aspie things about me, since a good majority of the Aspies I've met, IRL or online, have little sex drive to speak of.

^Yeah me too, only I didn't grow up in a conservative home so this beats me. Use to be very embarassed about it. Still am at times.


Anyway I wasn't going to post in here but being how this topic is so popular, I couldn't resist.

I have a very high libido but I guess as far as sex is concerned...I don't think I've had enough experience in that area.

I'm definitely no asexual, so ummm......

What strikes me as well as most Aspies' lack of sex drive, is that those of us who do have it, REALLY have it!

I think this is one for the adult forum really

I know lol

Me too have lack of sexual drive