Was this girl really interested in me?

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It's hard to say, without having witnessed the exchange between you and the girls, whether they were making fun of you or were genuinely interested. Then again it would have been hard to say if I had seen the exchange.

I think, from calling you "sexy" right away, that level of intimacy is a) superficial and b) not normal after a few seconds.

For your mother to spend all of two hours ranting at you for this is absolutely ridiculous.

Actually, no, she still might be available, if you know who she is and where to find her. Just say "You know, I'm sorry about last time, I just didn't know you well enough. However, I would be very interested in getting to know you better, would you like to hang out sometime?". And you give her your number. Hope you give my suggestion a go, good luck [/quote]

That's just it! I don't know where to find her. I'm going to have to wait until someone else comes along ....... which could be months.

I'm not saying you're feminine, but girls are usually on the BS about not gioving their numbers out to strangers. you should have thought a 3rd time and gave it to her. You'll see her again, and dont ask her for her number, just give her yours, then while you're handing it ask her for her number. I'm no dating expert, but i have a feeling she was interested in u

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is right, if you come across her again, play it cool, be mister cool, and slip her your phone number, and be on your way, you dont even have to fake the antisocialness required to act "hard to get" ;]

its cus of situations like that, that i have conciously decided to be a lot more "jolly" and "flirty" with girls. if they openly flirt with me, be it a joke or not, i will be playfully flirty back. "put on the charm"

it doesnt hurt you to try

sounds like you let something gooooood go

That would have confused the hell out of me, too.

But I would probably have given her some contact details to see what developed ... without getting my hopes up. (I said contact details, because I really hate phones and prefer other means of contact).

Don't ever presume to know how others see you ... you are often your own worst critic ... it took me decades to realise that and it held me back no end. Let others accept you as they find you. Many women aren't into good looks in prospective partners ... they are often attracted to people for other reasons. Remember the song: "Pretty women out walking with gorillas down my street ......... "

Whether it was "genuine" interest or not, what's done is done, so it does no good to dwell on it.

Not even a the biggest facepalm in the earth would ever express, how....plain out said stupid that was of you : /

Ok, fact is YOU think you are not attractive and etc.
God knows, but if she asked for your number, tell me, would you die from giving it to her?: /
It's not like it's the end of the world.
Thou i DO understand what you mean, having no confidence in yourself, and all of a sudden a good looking girls comes up, of course, one is bound to be suspicious, but you could still have given your number and see where it all leads to.
The only thing i find abit off (might just be me), is that they consider them selfs sexy and ask not even to sexy ones? I dont know why, but to me thats the only part, thats off, it looks like shes going "Oh com'on, i'm sexy, you cant refuse me geek"

Either way, my advice, take the numbers next time, it whont kill you

Admitting I wasn't there and have absolutely no more of a cognizant idea of what was going on in that situation than you do, my attitude would have been "meh, what the hell," meaning I'd have given the number out of curiosity of what was going to happen next. Boredom overrules dignity.

There was a time when I'd have been worried about just being teased, too, but really, the worst she can actually do is give your number to telemarketers.