AutisticMalcontent wrote:
MissConstrue wrote:
@Toad
Doesn't have to cross the line of sex or anything.
Doesn't have to be with someone you are currently dating right now. I mean I'm not dating or anything these are just ideas.
And there's no such thing as a hopless romantic or unromantic when it comes to your own world....just so people here don't think they need to make a list of where they think or how a date SHOULD go in our sheeple minds of social constructs.
Absolutely, when the world is cold and unfriendly, there is nothing more relaxing and enjoyable than to fantasize about how the perfect date would go and what you would do.
Even romantic malcontents like us have some notion of what the perfect date or date location might be. We are only malcontents because we haven't felt romantic love and therefore feel the need to lash out in our anger and disappointment. However, what is the harm in a little fantasy and role playing? (mind you I mean role playing in the sense of picturing of how the perfect date might go, I'm not alluding to anything of a sexual nature

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Well, I guess... it still feels a bit weird to me, though... Because everyone keeps talking about lowering standards until you get someone, do I really have a right to pursue fulfillment of a mere fantasy?
The important thing to make me happy isn't the specific details, though... the thing I want to experience is that whole feeling of everything else in the world, all the cares, concerns, and life outside fall away, leaving only you and your partner... nothing before or after that one time I experienced such a feeling (with a girl I almost ended up going out with that I met doing theater) left me nearly as content... I was just suggesting implementing that feeling into a framework that the woman would also find romantic...