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Do you think an AS-AS relationship could work?
Yes 50%  50%  [ 18 ]
No 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
Depends... 44%  44%  [ 16 ]
Why are you thinking about it? You're 15! 3%  3%  [ 1 ]
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Masuna
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17 May 2009, 4:47 am

ya we are still friends but she will never trust me again. crappy the only girl i ever loved! i still love her! if you find your love dont let go and dont mess up! honesty loyalty love all that matters! i wish this place existed when i was 15 woulda saved me alot of trouble lol



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17 May 2009, 4:53 am

Masuna wrote:
ya we are still friends but she will never trust me again. crappy the only girl i ever loved! i still love her! if you find your love dont let go and dont mess up! honesty loyalty love all that matters! i wish this place existed when i was 15 woulda saved me alot of trouble lol
Will do :) *happy now*



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17 May 2009, 7:00 am

I think AS/AS relationships could work, but they could also go wrong. Just like all relationships.
When I was in year 7 at school (11/12) I had a friend who is an aspie and I remember on the school bus this girl said "you two would make a good couple, you both have that asperger thing" :lol:


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17 May 2009, 7:12 am

MONKEY wrote:
I think AS/AS relationships could work, but they could also go wrong. Just like all relationships.
When I was in year 7 at school (11/12) I had a friend who is an aspie and I remember on the school bus this girl said "you two would make a good couple, you both have that asperger thing" :lol:

Well, it's good to know the rest of the world lumps us all together. :lol:



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18 May 2009, 1:12 pm

one thing I would have a problem with about dating another aspie is genetics. Quite simply, I can't see a reason to date unless your looking for marriage. It follows then you should know about the traits that will be passed down to your children (at least if your planning to have kids, which I am). I think I read somewhere that two AS parents are fairly likely to have low-functioning autistic kids. Does anyone have a proof or disproof for this?


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18 May 2009, 1:30 pm

Rafter613 wrote:
one thing I would have a problem with about dating another aspie is genetics. Quite simply, I can't see a reason to date unless your looking for marriage. It follows then you should know about the traits that will be passed down to your children (at least if your planning to have kids, which I am). I think I read somewhere that two AS parents are fairly likely to have low-functioning autistic kids. Does anyone have a proof or disproof for this?
I've thought about this quite a lot, and it does make me question where I stand with children...at one point, I selfishly thought "Well, at least they won't need as many cuddles" but I realize that's slightly warped...I'd like to see some proof/disproof.



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18 May 2009, 1:33 pm

AS+ AS= ASS!



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18 May 2009, 1:39 pm

I'd probably prefer a NT woman mainly because I'm too shy to make the 1st move.



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18 May 2009, 1:49 pm

methinks i'd prefer an aspie lady, regardless of how shy i am.. NT's, unless very obsessive will likely not "get" me..



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18 May 2009, 2:10 pm

First move, eh...
Girls asking guys out is not necessarily an NT trait. I think I've asked out around 10 guys in total?
(Of course, all of them have turned me down because I'm an overweight clean freak who reads about Jeffrey Dahmer for fun.)



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18 May 2009, 4:04 pm

Really depends on the person.

While it's true that AS women are not as emotionally demanding as NT women, and they might be more likely to put up with disappointment and difficulty due to not wanting to change what they have, there are just some AS men that are far too distant even for the average AS woman.

I've dated an AS man who barely had a pulse. He could see me once every six weeks, and be perfectly happy with that.

I've also dated an ADHD man who wants to see me five times a week, and complains if I can only see him three times.

Given both extremes, I still prefer the second option. Even if it is too much in the long run, better that than too little.



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18 May 2009, 4:11 pm

LePetitPrince wrote:
AS+ AS= ASS!


Dammit you stole my idea!!


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18 May 2009, 4:53 pm

MissConstrue wrote:
LePetitPrince wrote:
AS+ AS= ASS!


Dammit you stole my idea!!


LPP + MissC = ASS

or master thief.

or Bilbo Baggins the hobbit thief?