Why is it that the nice guys finish last?

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LOL.

Sorry.

Its pretty obvious why none of you can find a woman. (Ken and Tim) I'm sorry. People tried helping you, and still you have these f****d up perceptions on life which no-one in the world will find attractive.

Maybe it's time you both looked inwards... and blamed your relationship issues on yourself?

Toad is the exception - I think he just needs to lose the self loathing.

Nothing will come of it, because it's not an attack, just a recap on everything you've posted in these threads and anyway its no-where near as bad as some of the stuff you've gotten away with posting.

Does not matter if its on par with it or not. The point is I felt attacked and hurt by what another member said in a thread here and I reported how I felt it was an attack to a mod. Mods tell me that no one should feel uncomfortable with what someone else says on WP. You made me feel threatened and uncomfortable, therfore I felt it was an attack, end of story. I have the same feelings, ect as other members here. I feel I was attacked by someone, its my right to report it, as others have reported me.

Just about every one of your posts make me feel uncomfortable, they make me want to punch a hole in the wall. You don't see me reporting them, maybe I should.

This is stupid. Really, it is. You're against drugs because of your past which is understandable to an extent, but to write of antidepressants which could possibly help you think clearly for once? You DO know that it takes them at least a month to kick in and by then you'll know if they help or not. You CAN stop taking them. They're not happy pills, hell, would I wouldn't give for a pill for "life." How do you know if you don't try?
I've been on several meds before I found one that works for me, ( that goes for shrinks too )and it's not false happiness that I get. I am calmer, more rational, and after half a lifetime of abuse and the repercussions of it, I'm finally at a state where I can cope, and not cry all the time, think the world's against me, and think that I'm never going to be happy. That is not not what I would call fake happiness.
It's up to you though, take a chance and see how it goes, or just plod on through your life feeling angry at the world and depressed. It's that simple.

Maybe the thing to do is to forget about girls for a while and concentrate on getting healthy. It would improve your mood and your self image and you will project more self confidence. I think men and women alike are going to shy away from getting involved with someone they think is going to be an emotional drain. The mind affects the body and the body affects the mind. I need to do it too. My son got a Wii fit plus for his birthday and my "fit age" is just real sad. Start walking. Eat real food. Get some sleep.

10 mg is nothing btw. I'm on 60mg of prozac and I wouldn't have it any other way. I don't like feeling bad.

My only answer to the thread topic is this: nice guys finish last...in bed.

In my limited experience of hearing others speak of this...Girls want the bad boys, but they marry the nice guy in the end. Of course, I certainly can be wrong, as my experience is limited. However, I choose to be the nice guy. If a woman passes me up for not being bad enough, then that is her choice. I am not going to change for anyone; I am who I am.